hi
i used the drip drip tactic. i told her lots of litlle things to soften her up to the real truth. i allso thought of the things that she was most mad at and used them as a way to show her why the jws are wrong.
say shes mad at unspiritual elders. show her how they are selected wrongly. and DO NOT hit her with things that destroy cherished notions, ie blood doctrine. if you start on the small things over months, youll fair better.