*waving @ k&h,om!
interesting topic and filled with plenty of emotions.
I've heard medical people say "how do you know that the child will grow up and accept his parents religion. Shouldn't the child have the option to live and make a decision when he/she is an adult".
So stick with facts, if you can. But there is nothing wrong, imho, to appeal to the mother/father love of a child and why would you want to sacrafice that child for men's opinion.
Have fun with the topic.
Joy