Hello Larc,
I appreciate what you have done here.
I sympathize with each of you who have differed with Larc’s post. Not because I feel he is wrong but because I see YOU have BEEN WRONGED. You no doubt have been hurt by the WT. But no one is saying you have not been hurt nor is the point that you have been helped you more than you have been hurt. However, it may be healthy for us to look at the positive gains from an experience ALONG WITH THE NEGATIVE so as not to be swallowed in bad emotions
Larc said:
“It seems to me, that a good deal of our present happiness is determined by what we choose to dwell on. If we dwell on bad experiences we will feel bad. If we use our past experiences to help ourselves and others, we become much happier people in my opinion.”
My opinion as well. Having dealt with my own tendencies toward depression as well as helping others, some of us have identified a common enemy we call “Stinken Thinken”. Forcing ourselves to dwell on more positive thoughts does not change our history or the accountability of those who have harmed us, but MAKES US HEALTHIER.
Thanks for this effort.
Jst2laws