anyone else have any experience of a couple of months after leaving the org...feelings etc??.
my husband has left too and feels the same as i do.. but we just seem to be arguing constantly at the moment, though i do feel this may be my own fault!
i feel soooo angry, bitter and annoyed at how things have turned out.
Yes i am! I'm in the midlands, a few hours from you...
Babysprout was crying for one of her old friends last night...How do you comfort a child in this sort of situation?? It's lovely for them to have a normal life though...Thats one thing out of this mess that we can rejoice about, that we will never take for granted what our children can partake in!
Peace
anyone else have any experience of a couple of months after leaving the org...feelings etc??.
my husband has left too and feels the same as i do.. but we just seem to be arguing constantly at the moment, though i do feel this may be my own fault!
i feel soooo angry, bitter and annoyed at how things have turned out.
Oh Bez reading your post made me cry!
I have not long turned 30 and i left when i was 28... Carrot and I rowed pretty much constantly when we first left, it was awful! We had home schooled Babysprout while dubs as i couldn't bear the thought of her being left out with all the festivities and made to feel like a freak...As a result of us all being shunned when we left, all the kids she used to play with were no longer allowed to play with her...She was a very lonely sprout...She started school this march and has excelled! Which i am soo grateful for...
It's soo hard when you leave as you have nothing or nobody! Trust me it gets better... Your counselling will help you soo much...You will heal it just takes time but you will all get through it...And you will have a stronger marriage at the end of it...You have both been through so much together, be grateful that you have both managed to break free...
If you can pray cause i know its hard to when you first leave, ask to be clothed in Love...It helps honest....
Peace and love to you all
i know i did.
at least 10 here.. i know you can make enemies that's for sure lol!.
Yeah with capitals and everything! Lol...
i know i did.
at least 10 here.. i know you can make enemies that's for sure lol!.
Am i involved in the ten friends??
traditionally, women have had a poor deal from the society: no positions of responsibility, no priviledges.. at the same time, the congregations have suffered from an acute shortage of elders.. ( the society have long realised that many elders are simply puppets, with their wife's hand inserted within pulling the strings).
all is about to change!.
new light has been revealed!.
make-up is not to be applied, hairstyles must be short, neat, slicked down. Where possible, nature permitting, a small, neat moustache should be encouraged.
Jewellery, inc., earrings are out.
Sounds like the ''sisters'' in my old hall lol....
Peace and light
so what silly things have you been counselled on or simply been told off for?.
back in my early 20's, i had a pair of comfy old jeans that started to tear in about 3 places on the leg.
it was the fashion at the time so not only did they feel great to wear, they also looked 'in', not that i cared for that, but it was a bonus .
When babysprout was newborn she suffered from colic and cried every hour of the day! I was out in the foyer at the meeting and this elder looked at me tutted and slamed the door shut to the main hall... I didn't know whether to cry or punch him in the face!
A few months later this same elder who was in charge of the field service reports came up to me and wanted to know why i hadn't reported...I told him i had a 3 month old baby and that it was winter and i wasn't taking a baby out in this weather... His reply... Thats no excuse, get out on the ministry.
the love is truly overwhelming isn't it! Lol...
Peace and light
dear ones.
rather, it is our adversary who says we will do anything... anything... to avoid it.
a-n-y-t-h-i-n-g. even curse god to his face.
Gah Watersprout. I can't even think about food right now. I just got done with 20 mins on the rowing machine and a 3 mile run. I need to cool down for a bit. Maybe later I'll give you a recipe.
Get you sweet little ass in front of that cooker and make me some grub! Don't make me come to your house! I gotta a mean bite....
Peace and get cooking boy
dear ones.
rather, it is our adversary who says we will do anything... anything... to avoid it.
a-n-y-t-h-i-n-g. even curse god to his face.
I wasn't on about you CD... Everyone is entitled to their own opinion..*Whispers* Some on here not mentioning any names seem to like to follow shellys posts! *Hiccoup* Damn martini.... How far are you into ''the red tent?''... Going to read some after i have put Babysprout to bed....
NVL get in that kitchen and made me something awesome to eat! I'm a women who doesn't like to be kept waiting.
Peace
dear ones.
rather, it is our adversary who says we will do anything... anything... to avoid it.
a-n-y-t-h-i-n-g. even curse god to his face.
WATCH OUT STALKERS ABOUT!!!!!
*hiccoup*
Peace stalkers
dear ones.
rather, it is our adversary who says we will do anything... anything... to avoid it.
a-n-y-t-h-i-n-g. even curse god to his face.
OH MY LIFE! Sorry the Jew came out in me then. Lol
How many times do i have to change the subject before you get the message to LEAVE Shelly alone! For crying out loud! The ones on here that claim Shelby has a cult following are the ones that keep stalking her... I think that there may be some with a dangerous obsession about Shelby..I think these stalkers may need help with that obsession...*whispers* you know who you are....
Peace to all you Shelby stalkers!
