I'm glad to hear you had a good holiday, shame about the rubbish you came back to...I was like you 18 months ago, Carrot was very opposed to my beliefs that the org was a crazy cult...The rows we had were scary! I learnt to keep my mouth shut and if Carrot wanted to talk about something i would stay calm and listen to his viewpoint...Even though inside, my blood was boiling...Drop out subtle hints about the org [just something little to get her thinking], entice your wife to stay home on meeting nights by cooking her a lovely dinner...Teach your kids about life in the real world...Let them take part in after school clubs...But most of all be loving and patient...The cult personality is a nasty thing, but once her mind starts to unravel you will need to be there to carry her through it...Make sure your home is a happy and peaceful place to be...The way to get her out is to show love...Anger and frustration will only push her back in.
When your wife comes back from the meetings have a big smile on your face and a drink ready for her...Trust me it worked with Carrot...
Peace and light to you and your family