Geez NVL,
I hate that you got ratted on, I found that there are two
kinds of witnesses, The ones that are ratted on, and the
ones that aren't caught yet. If the elders really did their jobs
in keeping the cong clean, they would all be empty. No matter
what happens no one can make you feel bad about yourself
unless you give them the power over you to do so.
Keep you head up