Besides us being in the same book group I didnt even notice my now husband because he was so quiet... It was only after a chance meeting where a group of us Teens all met up to go Ice-skating, that we first came into contact and I finally learnt his name. He had gone skating with another sister, with the purpose of being on another sort of date, but I didnt realise this. As my hubby was a terrible skater I helped him around the rink.... The sister he was there with was seething. I learnt this because all the other JW teens kept asking me did I like him? And why was I spending so much time teaching him to skate! I simply was doing what I thought others did & that was to help a fellow christian learn to skate ! I had absolutely no interest in him as his fashion sense was so VERY bad. (lol) He was very skinny and wore pale pink V neck jumpers that were fitted, drain pipe skinny trousers and the most god awful coat it was embarrassing....
Fast Forward he started to chat with me at the book group and I realised he had a good sense of humor, and we had a lot in common (other than religion). No looking back, our friendship/love blossomed (over 6 months) and we finally got to date the day I got baptised. 3 months after my baptism we were engaged. 1 year later we were married... During our courtship I was able to completely change his fashion sense and turn him into a fashionable dude. The other sister was absolutely livid. My hubbys mom got on her high horse when I cleared out his wardrobe of vile clothes, and she told me that I wasnt married to her son yet and that I was to put all the clothes back! (Stupid as he was NEVER going to wear them again on my shift !!!)
We had a chaperone for a while, but then our parents felt that we were mature enough to be left alone. Needless to say that was a big mistake & our celibacy didnt last :) 20 years later were still happily married & we now have 4 junior/teen children...
We were made for each other ......