Hi Crazyguy,
You've raised a number of objections I too at one time felt dealt the theory of evolution a fatal blow. Rather than answer them one by one, I would like to suggest you read three books. I would be interested in your views on them afterwards or now if you've already read them.
The books are:
Darwin's Black Box by Michael Behe, Finding Darwin's God by Kenneth Miller and On the Origin of Species by Charles Darwin.
A major turning point in my thinking happened while trying to help a friend of mine who had left the faith. I bought him and me a copy of Michael Behe's book Darwin's Black Box. This was the first time I read any material on the theory of evolution outside of what had been provided by Jehovah's Witnesses. Behe is both religious (Roman Catholic) and a microbiologist. He rejects the notion that a series of random events could have resulted in the complex biological systems we see at the cellular level. I am not sure, but he may have even coined the term "Irreducibly Complex." Since these biological machines were only discovered after Darwin's time, Behe points out these things were a "black box" to Darwin.
Behe would eventually be interviewed by Awake!
A couple of things immediately struck me about his book. One is he fully believes that the theory of evolution operates on life, once life had been placed here by some intelligent agency. I knew that was not compatible with my beliefs as a Witness! Second was his example of the blood clotting cascade being IC didn't jive with something that had happened in Canada. Unlike the USA, in Canada, blood was not tested for HIV (it is now of course) and as a result many became infected with AIDS. When Horace Krever ran his Royal Inquiry on this he apparently wound up interviewing the oldest living hemophiliac in Canada. This individual did not take Factor VIII like others, because he was a Witness and did not wish to take this blood-based product. So... it struct me, isn't hemophilia actually what Behe said could not exist -- i.e. a blood clotting system with one of the parts missing? Yet, obviously it still worked well enough that this person was able to live.
It was then my friend gave me a copy of Finding Darwin's God by Kenneth Miller. His religious views are exactly like Michael Behe, Roman Catholic. His education and expertise is also similar -- microbiologist. His book shook my world to its foundations! I knew by the end, Miller, not Behe had won the argument on this subject. Not only does he masterfully deal with Behe's arguments but also that of several others. I also realized why scientist in this field as a general rule accept the theory of evolution as sound. Shortly after reading this book I resigned as an elder.
Only later after I had left the faith did I start to think about an objection we would often present to people who were critical of the Bible. We would ask, respectfully, had the person actually read the Bible? Had they studied it? Thus I set upon reading Charles Darwin's book On The Origin of Species. The book, I will grant is not an easy read (at least for me). It has some long run-on sentences and long build up of foundational arguments before making a point. The first thing that jumped out at me is how modern and up-to-date the text reads, compared to the writings of Charles Russell. Both men wrote within a few decades of each other. The first Zion's Watchtower was written in 1879 and On the Origin of Species was written 20 years earlier in 1859. Russell's writings read like silly nonsense by comparison, especially on the subject of science.
Cheers,
-Randy
ps. Here is my, perhaps lame, attempt at some humor. Evolution is crap, to rabbits! Their digestive systems are setup such that material must pass completely through the system first, then be reintroduced at the start. Yes, it is apparently true, rabbits must eat their own feces to survive!