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  praying for a jw partner

  by varian in

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  during my early 20ies while studying the bible, and many years after babtizm, i never dated even one sister!

  my cong was like in nomansland, and consisted of many older jws.

  so it was pretty depressing as a young brother without the slightest hope of finding an appropriate partner.. but one day, a very hot looking sister joined our club for a while, so all of a sudden, there were all types of dudes from other congs coming to our meetings.. i don t know how this conversation came about, but one jw gave me the advice, not to mention a persons name in prayer, because god will know who the right sister will be a suitable partner.

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  varian

  thank you all for your kind posts.

  during my time, we didn´t have internet. so i always had to wait for the circut assembly. poor looking back on it.

  have a wonderful 2011. varian
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  praying for a jw partner

  by varian in

  1. jw
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  during my early 20ies while studying the bible, and many years after babtizm, i never dated even one sister!

  my cong was like in nomansland, and consisted of many older jws.

  so it was pretty depressing as a young brother without the slightest hope of finding an appropriate partner.. but one day, a very hot looking sister joined our club for a while, so all of a sudden, there were all types of dudes from other congs coming to our meetings.. i don t know how this conversation came about, but one jw gave me the advice, not to mention a persons name in prayer, because god will know who the right sister will be a suitable partner.

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  varian

  hi pirata,

  he didn´t know my thoughts at that time. but it sounded like a biblical advice. but nowhere does it say to pray for someone, or mention a name during prayer.

  so, if you´re seeing someone, don´t pray to god during that time, because god knows far way in advance who is really the right partner.

  can´t i decide for myself who i fancy and who i don´t?
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  praying for a jw partner

  by varian in

  1. jw
  2. friends

  during my early 20ies while studying the bible, and many years after babtizm, i never dated even one sister!

  my cong was like in nomansland, and consisted of many older jws.

  so it was pretty depressing as a young brother without the slightest hope of finding an appropriate partner.. but one day, a very hot looking sister joined our club for a while, so all of a sudden, there were all types of dudes from other congs coming to our meetings.. i don t know how this conversation came about, but one jw gave me the advice, not to mention a persons name in prayer, because god will know who the right sister will be a suitable partner.

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  varian

  during my early 20ies while studying the bible, and many years after babtizm, i never dated even one sister! not one!

  my cong was like in nomansland, and consisted of many older jws. so it was pretty depressing as a young brother without the slightest hope of finding an appropriate partner.

  but one day, a very hot looking sister joined our club for a while, so all of a sudden, there were all types of dudes from other congs coming to our meetings.

  i don´t know how this conversation came about, but one jw gave me the advice, not to mention a persons name in prayer, because god will know who the right sister will be a suitable partner. hahaha!

  so in other words: if you fancy someone, and you seem to get along together: for goodness sake, never have her on your mind during prayer! let god decide what is good for you!

  it was the loniest years of my whole life. it was like locking myself in a cellar on purpose. very depressing!

  where you told a similar thing about praying for mr/mrs right? its not biblical, is it?
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  sorry

  by varian in

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  it s me again....and yes, i m still alive.. first of all: i am really sorry for causing some trouble lately.

  i had the intention of taking an overdose the other day.

  to be perfectly honest, i was drunk out of my mind when i wrote my last post, and someone i knew gave me all kind of pills to take.

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  varian

  it´s me again....and yes, i´m still alive.

  first of all: i am really sorry for causing some trouble lately. i had the intention of taking an overdose the other day. to be perfectly honest, i was drunk out of my mind when i wrote my last post, and someone i knew gave me all kind of pills to take. well anyway, i survived just about and woke up 2 days later with my face in my own vomit. so it was a pretty mess.

  i was frustratet and depressed i suppose, but i don´t want to do that again. it wasn´t to pay attention to myself, i just wanted someone to get the things off my chest. so once again, i am very sorry.

  and to outlaw, my friend: you can´t drink beer when you´re dead. how right you are....

  thanks for all the kind posts and advices. god bless you all. varian
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  this is it. i had enough

  by varian in

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  i feel like not being part of anything since god knows when.

  i ve tryed, but to make a long story short: i don t fit in to anything.. i can t get out of these bleeding depressions.

  so i ll go out tonight for the last time in my life and take an overdose at the end.. its been nice meeting you all.

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  varian

  i feel like not being part of anything since god knows when. i´ve tryed, but to make a long story short: i don´t fit in to anything.

  i can´t get out of these bleeding depressions. so i´ll go out tonight for the last time in my life and take an overdose at the end.

  its been nice meeting you all. take care....

  varian
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  sometimes, when i wake up in the morning...

  by varian in

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  ...i lay on my back, gazing out of the window, and stare into the sky.. many things wander through my mind, and i can t find my piece of mind.

  things like "who am i, what am i, where did all this come from, why is the moon shining on my face, why did god do all the things, and why are things the way they appear?".

  then i ask myself: what about all the religions in the world, whats all this confusing stuff the wts teaches (prophecy, blood doctrine), and all the thing the bible doesn t teach?.

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  ...i lay on my back, gazing out of the window, and stare into the sky.

  many things wander through my mind, and i can´t find my piece of mind. things like "who am i, what am i, where did all this come from, why is the moon shining on my face, why did god do all the things, and why are things the way they appear?"

  then i ask myself: what about all the religions in the world, whats all this confusing stuff the wts teaches (prophecy, blood doctrine), and all the thing the bible doesn´t teach?

  on the other hand i´m very glad to be a part of his creation and to be alive. but then i ask myself, why all this senseless suffering everywhere, and why is the god of the old testament different from the new one? why did he turn from a wrathfull god who destroyed all typs of humans, into a kind, forgiving righteous god?

  it bugs me every day of my life!
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  I can spot a Brit a mile away...

  by varian in

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  ...tatooed arms (e.g.

  mum & dad), diamond socks, baked beans, every second word beginns with an f., red faced on teneriffa, binge drinking....anything else?

  (please take this with humor my friends).

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  ...tatooed arms (e.g. mum & dad), diamond socks, baked beans, every second word beginns with an f., red faced on teneriffa, binge drinking....anything else? (please take this with humor my friends)
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  to all men in their 40ies or older

  by varian in

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  i must admit, that i love being with youger woman.

  i m 44 now, and so far the partners i had, where between 3 and 15 years younger, which i consider okayish.

  but recently, i ve had email offers from girls between 19 and early 20. now i really don t know what to think about that.

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  varian

  thanks for all your comments.

  today i read in the newspaper, that a 42 year old jw sister is dating a 16 jw boy. now thats weird.
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  to all men in their 40ies or older

  by varian in

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  i must admit, that i love being with youger woman.

  i m 44 now, and so far the partners i had, where between 3 and 15 years younger, which i consider okayish.

  but recently, i ve had email offers from girls between 19 and early 20. now i really don t know what to think about that.

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  varian

  i must admit, that i love being with youger woman. i´m 44 now, and so far the partners i had, where between 3 and 15 years younger, which i consider okayish. but recently, i´ve had email offers from girls between 19 and early 20. now i really don´t know what to think about that. they want to meet me, but hmm.....

  on the other hand i saw 2 couples not so long ago. those guys where well over 50 walking with - i would guess - 20 years olds. that was pretty mind bugging for me, especially because they where very attraktive women. i just thought like: how the hell did they get them??? because the blokes were nothing but good looking at all, according to my observance.

  so to my question: if you´re 40 or older, would you go out with a young woman in her early 20ies?
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  CO refused to take money. And gave me "new light".

  by DagothUr in

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  i'm an ex jw from romania and living in an area where our co was a young italian guy by the name of r.b.

  so one day he visited our congregation.

  it was just after the new light on "this generation", somewhere in may 2010 if i recall correctly.

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  varian

  nice fake : )