She came back with this reply...."Jehovah's Witnesses do not 'shun'.
From a recent WT Study Article.
17 Consider just one example of the good that can come when a family loyally
upholds Jehovah’s decree not to associate with disfellowshipped relatives. A
young man had been disfellowshipped for over ten years, during which time his
father, mother, and four brothers “quit mixing in company” with him. At times,
he tried to involve himself in their activities, but to their credit, each member
of the family was steadfast in not having any contact with him. After he
was reinstated, he said that he always missed the association with his family,
especially at night when he was alone. But, he admitted, had the family associated
with him even a little, that small dose would have satisfied him. However,
because he did not receive even the slightest communication from any
of his family, the burning desire to be with them became one motivating factor
in his restoring his relationship with Jehovah. Think of that if you are ever
tempted to violate God’s command not to associate with your disfellowshipped
relatives.