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  What I said to my wife

  by Frazzled UBM in

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  all - so my wife told me she was going to the kh yesrterday.

  it has been a couple of months so i was a bit disappointed but i sucked it in.

  i thought about it for a while and when we had a quiet moment together i said to her: "i know you need to make an appearance every once in a while to avoid the risk of being asked to da yourself and being shunned.

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  whathappened

  Good response!
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  What was the most rebellious thing you did while you were a devout jw?

  by DuvanMuvan in

  1. jw
  2. friends

  i was just thinking about how humans being imperfect and satan's influence was the root of everything bad that anyone has ever done.

  well i know that apparently everyone is vulnerable which got me thinking about what "bad" things people have done while they were a jw.

  i'll start it off.

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  whathappened

  I wore low cut necklines and showed cleavage. Most of the sisters shunned me over it, especially the flat chested ones!
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  A letter from my Mom

  by ateograciasadios in

  1. jw
  2. friends

  friends,.

  i have seen several posts like the following, and never thought i would have to write one myself, but here we go: my dear mom is forcing me to make a move... one that i have been really avoiding as much as possible.

  she wrote me an email today, and here i am giving you an idea of its contents.

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  whathappened

  Ewe...you are in a tough spot. I always advise others to betrue to yourself. Live an authentic life. Tell your sweet brainwashed momma that you love her truly but cannot be a member of an organisation that is clearly not what it claims to be.

  Best to you, dear
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  ...WBT$/JW Preaching at the Door with a Cell Phone?!...

  by OUTLAW in

  1. watchtower
  2. beliefs

  ........................ ........................will jw`s be using their cell phone or tablet.. ...............to show a wbt$ video to people in the field service?!!...

  ........................... .................................... .. .......................................click the link below:.

  ................................................... http://www.jehovahswitnessrecovery.com/forum/viewtopic.php?f=14&t=19681.

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  whathappened

  This takes no effort at all! The dumbing down continues.
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  Any seniors looking for association?

  by cultBgone in

  1. social
  2. relationships

  life is tough when you've spent your best years in the borg...how do you reconnect when kids are grown and you're close to retirement age?.

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  whathappened

  It is difficult. I left three years ago and all my lifelong friends are now not allowed to talk to me. I go to movies and go mall walking, etc. it does get lonely but you can't go back to a cult, you know.
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  I just got to play householder!

  by Laika in

  1. jw
  2. friends

  i was a little nervous and a bit dazed, i think i will do better next time.

  he offered me the memorial invite, i told him i had jw family who would invite me and he got interested and wanted to find out more, so i told him i wasn't interested in the jw religion, he asked why and i said i find it too controlling.

  he thought i was talking about moral rules so started on about how jehovah doesn't want to restrict us 'blah blah', so i pointed out that i meant they're not allowed to read certain materials which is wrong if it's as true as they are confident of.. he then went on about how satan uses false teaching to manipulate us and so we have to be careful of what we read.

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  whathappened

  Good job, you have him thinking!
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  Should Passive Resistance Be The Weapon Of Choice For Those Stuck In The Watchtower Corporation Cult?

  by frankiespeakin in

  1. watchtower
  2. beliefs

  what can a person do who is stuck in the watchtower cult movement but don't want to be shunned or disfellowshipped but want to follow a course of passive resistants, like ghandi did to the brits to get them out of control over india?.

  http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/nonviolent_resistance.

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  whathappened

  Now that I read some of these suggestions, I realize I was doing most of these things long before I left.
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  Troubling experience at 1 day assembly re: little jw child

  by williamhconley in

  1. watchtower
  2. beliefs

  just had my 1day assembly this weekend.

  an experience given by the bethel speaker was quite troubling and shows how jw's live in constant paranoia, anxiety and they isolate themselves from normal living.. a first grade class was having a fire drill.

  everyone ( except one) lined up and stood outside away fron the classroom in the grass.

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  whathappened

  There are so many things we as Jehovah's Witnesses are not allowed to do it would be difficult for a small child to catch every single BAD THING!!!
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  My Daughter Begins to Reason on Her Own About the Witnesses

  by losingit in

  1. jw
  2. friends

  success!.

  today my oldest daughter attended her first birthday party ever for one of her best friends at school.

  we actually crashed because we didn't get an official invite or even an email, but it ended up working out and the mom was happy to have us there.

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  whathappened

  Wonderful news! You have your daughter in a good place where she feels she can talk to you without being punished or judged.
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  The Bible Says the wt says.. Who should we trust?

  by objectivetruth in

  1. jw
  2. friends

  the bible says -.

  john 14:6 - 6 jesus said to him: i am the way and the truth and the life.

  no one comes to the father except through me.. jeremiah 9:4,5 "everyone, be on guard against your neighbor, and do not trust even your brother.

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  whathappened

  Who should you trust??? Don't ask a question you really don't want the answer to. I think you already know the correct answer, you may not be able to bring yourself to say it.