Welcome MM.
I was born and raised in the JW's. Family 'in', pioneered, ms, elder and all the trimmings.........
It was the 'overlapping' thing that finally finally got me. Don't get me wrong, I had doubts over the years and saw some very unloving things from elders and others who claimed to be Christian. I won't elaborate.
I resigned as an elder and in a bid to become 'super spiritual' I decided to lay to rest all my doubts.
It was the Watchtower's OWN writings that deporgrammed me. I had been on no forums and read nothing considered 'Apostate'.....after all I was trying to become the best I could be 'in the truth'!
Finally I decided to read 'Combatting Cult Mind Control' by Steven Hassan, about his journey from the moonies. This was surely not considered 'apostate' but a good book to expose the Moonies, part of false religion.
I saw the parallel between the Moonies and the JW's. Suddenly it all made absolute sense! I'd been conned all my life!
Yes! I do use 'ironic' terms for the Org. and I am not a bit repentant for this. It helps me see the 'irony' in my journey from the org. After all, the org uses 'loaded language' designed to cause the 'US vs: THEM' illusion.
Consider how insulting these terms actually are, they may as well be swear word insults = 'Apostate' 'Immature' 'Spiritually weak' 'worldly' among others.
Like you I didn't have a problem with 'UN, 607BCE' and the like until I realised the real implications of adding it all up!!
Keep in touch........and don't fret........take everything at your own pace.