I hope all goes well for you.
I'm 62 and my JW wife left 8 years ago and has now re-married a Jobo...............I'm not sure who to feel sorry for.
I have reached a stage where I don't NEED a partner. I guess it'd be nice but it's not a need.
Co-dependency will not define me. I'm not made whole by another person. I am whole on my own.
I am not unavailable but I'm not looking.
...........if that helps you see another mind-set?