no, i haven't told you mine because i need some ideas from you guys .
giving up spending so much time on the forum????.
nah!!!
Larc,
I really want to know what the resolutions were. Nah, I don't mean pixels!
Ashi...always the romantic
Marilyn...LOL's....and less shopping at you know where????
Ana
Think for yourselves and let others enjoy the privilege to do so, too...Voltaire
a lot of people are curious about what evidence there is in the fossil record for evolution.. check out scientific american, for a good example of whales.
(there was a good article there also in 2001 about the chemical origins of life, but i can't find it online) lotsa free info, and it's drawn from modern research.. .
http://www.sciam.com/explorations/2001/092401whales/index.html.
Cello,
Good article, but I really like the pic! Looks like a computer graphic job done in something like PhotoShop.
Ana
Think for yourselves and let others enjoy the privilege to do so, too...Voltaire
this post is triggered by freepeace's post on alcoholic relationships.
i'd like to share a story of a friend of mine with the hopes that you can provide some advice or insight.
he knows i'm a part of this board and understands how much support/encouragement/advice i get here.
Andi,
Just a short notation to my post before.
I have seen it mentioned a few times about whether Dave is "contolling" Kammy. I don't feel he is.
However, Kammy "is" being controlled willingly by mind altering substance.
Here is a link to a fair and informative site on the use of this substance...
. http://www.thegooddrugsguide.com/cannabis/dangers.htm
I would like to wish your friends all the best. I doubt that either of them is trying to hurt the other deliberately.
Ana
Think for yourselves and let others enjoy the privilege to do so, too...Voltaire
i'm hoping nobody already did a thread on this.
but who of you were good boys and girls this year?
what was the best thing that santa brought you?
I received several lovely gifts, but the best was a long-stemmed red rose.
Ana
Think for yourselves and let others enjoy the privilege to do so, too...Voltaire
i have a large collection of books, some fairly rare.
what are you guys collecting out there?
anything bizzarre?.
Vases! Don't ask me why! They can range from very $$$$$$$$ to 0$ at a garage sale.
Rugs, books, and omg.......cushions. I mean....poor visitors can hardly sit down until they have made their way through a barage of pure fluff!!
You asked Ashi!!!
Suppose I look like a real "nutter" now!
Ana
no, i haven't told you mine because i need some ideas from you guys .
giving up spending so much time on the forum????.
nah!!!
Cygnus,
That doesn't count!!! I am drunk all year anyway
Richie,
Yours is a beautiful approach to 2002
Still....I like Joels
Ana
no, i haven't told you mine because i need some ideas from you guys .
giving up spending so much time on the forum????.
nah!!!
Celia,
A couple of days ago I wasn't in the country ....so I didn't see it.
Doesn't matter anyway!!!!
Ana
no, i haven't told you mine because i need some ideas from you guys .
giving up spending so much time on the forum????.
nah!!!
Jolly,
That's a really great NYR
Mommy...ummmm...yep, that's more like a prophesy, afterall, ya can't keep it there .
Joelbear....So far you have won my vote and motivated me
Darkhorse,.....You come in a close second!
Still....I kinda like the idea of Dave's.....
Ana
in the organization, we had [have] limited choices of who can be our friends.
oftentimes, we had [have] to deal with many people we did [do] not like and pretend to be their friends.
of course, we also had [have] to deal with people who carry a lot of baggage and it was difficult.
Kay,
Thankyou for such an insightful post. I have personally had seasonal, people- spring-cleaning sessions, so I understand exactly what you mean.
This sounds awful, but hell, it's necessary. I just drift away quietly without hurting feelings.
Ana
this post is triggered by freepeace's post on alcoholic relationships.
i'd like to share a story of a friend of mine with the hopes that you can provide some advice or insight.
he knows i'm a part of this board and understands how much support/encouragement/advice i get here.
Andi,
There has been so much great advice already that I feel I have little to add.
However, Kammy is Kammy, and David is David. A marriage, relationship, engagement, partnership, whatever we may like to term it, does not one person make.
Kammy and David are each individuals with individual weaknesses and strengths.
Kammy is showing a definitive leaning towards an addictive personality and David is showing his total dislike of this personality type wrapped up in glossy paper as the woman he loves.
David has a choice to "not" get any further involved with Kammy as Kammy also has the choice to be involved with smoking "pot".
That is freedom of choice. Kammy has her choices and David has his.
I totally agree a councilor would help, but I also question whether Kammy really wants a councilor to help her get off of the "pot".
If David really dislikes Kammy's drug dependancy; tells her so and she still continues, he should leave. Otherwise he must ask himself if he is co-dependant on Kammy's behavior patterns to the degree that he would sacrifice his own belief systems.
Just my 10 cents worth.
Ana
