TW,
Your husband is more than a mere elder. He is a modern day prophet. I have the priveledge of being the first choosen of 12 that will share the last Thanksgiving with him at some very distant, future date. Since it will be our last one, we are going to violate the rules and really gorge our selves.
After much thought, I have concluded that dry wine is OK, but we draw the line there. No Sherrys or Ports, too many calories.