Blondie,
LOVED the post. Minimus is right. You should be a comedy writer.
Lisa
Thanks-but-no-thanks to the "Privilege" Class
(i shouldn't post this when i'm half asleep) .
comments you will not hear at this weekend's wt study (but i will be thinking them) .
week of september 2-8, 2002
Blondie,
LOVED the post. Minimus is right. You should be a comedy writer.
Lisa
Thanks-but-no-thanks to the "Privilege" Class
"the elders feel that she is basically biting the helping hand"
the quote above is from a recent news article regarding child rape and jehovah's witnesses.
i find it a stunning confirmation of exactly how abuse survivors are treated within the jehovahs witnesses community.
Hi Waiting....
I agree with you almost 100%.
This issue, though, is the one that mademe realize that the JWs are a cult and have brainwashed their victims. WHY? Because honest, goodhearted men who would rather die than harm a fly have somehow been snookered into believing that their manner of "investigating sins" is Jehovah's manner.
And, as I have stated before, the parents of the children themselves also have some culpability here--NOT that they (in all cases) knew the molestation was taking place. But those that did "committed the same crime" as my father/other elders. Instead of going to the police, they chose to let the elders handle it.
I can tell you now, they haven't made an elder yet that could handle me if my children were molested.
THE PATTERN WAS DESIGNED BY THE GOVERNING BODY. THEY are the bloodguilty ones here.
"God's ways are higher than man's ways" and when you've been hearing for YEARS sometimes DECADES that you are God's right hand man.....well, you lose perspective. Period.
I know many asshole elders, and a few elders that I would probably give my life for. They honestly think they are doing what's right.
Your position postulates that even Bill Bowen himself was an abuser...and it just isn't true. Unwittingly, unknowingly these men have participated in crimes against children. But I personally would not go the extra step to call them an abuser. Yes, the judicial committees they sat on have done irreparable damage to who knows how many adults and children.
Calling *ALL* of those men abusers outright, imho, is doing a disservice. Remember that at one time, we too were "abusers"--going from door to door spreading our brainwashing message of death to the unsuspecting general public.
Without giving any confidential details over the DB, I'd say we should talk via phone. I'll send you my number via email. Bill Bowen woke up. The rest haven't woken up yet to the reality of the situation.
Lisa
ps check your email
well, since i've been rather "inactive" and haven't started any new threads in a coupla months at least, i want to get your thoughts on this subject.. i've been reading a fair deal (since i'm a fast reader, i've always been able to keep up with most of the posts.
) but lately (past month) i really haven't been feeling drawn to jw.com.
i have nothing but admiration for simon, ang, bill and shiela but i do have some questions worth raising.
LOL @ Cassi...I said in the beginning of the thread I wasn't getting much sleep.
Took you three hours to catch it,
Makes me really look at her as an honest person for admitting to it. You wont find many here that will admit to having made a screw up like that.
Now this, I can agree with.
I do feel however the subject of why Fred Hall was deactivated has been beaten like a dead horse. This must be the tenth thread started about his demise.
I only saw a couple, but like I said....they didn't really state my position well.
((((((Cass))))))
Lisa
well, since i've been rather "inactive" and haven't started any new threads in a coupla months at least, i want to get your thoughts on this subject.. i've been reading a fair deal (since i'm a fast reader, i've always been able to keep up with most of the posts.
) but lately (past month) i really haven't been feeling drawn to jw.com.
i have nothing but admiration for simon, ang, bill and shiela but i do have some questions worth raising.
Jesika,
I'm glad too it ended on a good note for us. Thank you. I look forward to getting to know you.
Simon,
Although I'm on my way to bed now, I'll just make a couple of brief comments. I will try to catch up tomorrow although it's a holiday for us and I've plans.
My position is that when a hot-button issue such as pedophilia is on the tip of everyone's tongue....the pressure is on you to moderate those issues with a heavier hand.
As you know from emails I've privately written you, I'm not campaigning for Fred's return. I am aware that you get many emails, and am not pressuring you to respond. I know you'll respond when you're able.
Simon I'm not saying either way Fred or NYT should have/should have not been deactivated. You and Dubla are the only ones I've shared a certain theory with, and if you re-read my emails you'll see why.
This post was NOT about Fred or Jesika, they just (unfortunately for Jesika)represent the topic.
It is the responsiblity of the community of posters at large not to put more pressure on you to moderate certain hot-button topics.
As for this topic being "discussed to death," I already mentioned I went on vacation a day or two after it happened. I'm just now giving it some thought after reading certain posts. Those posts did not state my opinion, so I made my own. I wasn't aware that just because something had "previously been discussed" it was considered case closed.
Little Witch made bitchy, attackingremarks to me. (followed by Valis') I don't feel that saying, "I've never posted before" and then saying, "Well yes I did, are you satisfied?" is a "minor inconsistency."
I'm NOT LABELING LW a troll. Yet, this is some of the exact behavior we've seen from trolls in the past. I don't like it, it isn't honest or fair.
Trying to give the impression that you are "impartial" because you are a "newbie" then admitting.....well, you've been around for months. C'mon, now! It may have been unintentional, but minor it wasn't.
Lisa
Always been Lisa Class
Whoops, I just hit my limit of 30. I hope this goes through...
Edited to finish my thought and fix my formatting....
Edited by - LDH1 on 2 September 2002 3:26:5
the watchtower society, in its prime teaching publication the watchtower magazine, loves to discuss jehovah's "undeserved kindness.
" comparing their bible, the new world translation , with the king james version, we see an interesting difference at romans 11:6:
nwt: "now if it is by undeserved kindness, it is no longer due to works; otherwise, the undeserved kindness no longer proves to be undeserved kindness.
Of course, Paul being a murderer of the followers of Jesus, and still being allowed to live,may certainly mean that *he* received undeserved kindness from the LORD.
That doesn't mean the rest of us are in the boat with Paul, though.
Think: a parent has five children, and all five children do things you expect children will do. Misbehave on occasion, don't do their school studies on time, read past "lights out" time.
One of those children does something to the family that is worthy of receiving the ultimate family punishment. The parents react in a merciful manner, with kindness and understanding of that child's weakness. Surely, that child has a right to talk about the "undeserved kindness" he or she received.
But, when that same kid goes on blathering to others about the "undeserved kindness" that *all* of the children receive, he/she may be stretching it a bit, don't you think? Trying to lump the other children in with him/herself may be just a bit much.
"Jehovah" is the one who, according to the WBTS has the power to stop the suffering that his children are put through on a daily basis. And yet, he doesn't. Where is this "Kindness" I'm hearing so much of?
Lisa
the following piece of misleading wt thinking was emailed to me recently by a close friend see what you think.
the following words are plaguerised from another person, but i did feel they should be posted.
""under the title "is it wrong to pronounce gods name?
Yadork, either I woke up a genius this morning or your arguments are even stupider and easier to refute than usual. (hint: I didn't wake up as a genius, LOL)
Ya dum-dum says:
The TRUTH is that the WTBTS does not claim that the word "Jehovah" is a perfect representation of the divine name.
So let me get this right.
Jehovah, the *TRUE* God, who is represented by the one *TRUE* religion on earth, through the "Faithful and Discreet Slave Class" has such a *HARD TIME* communicating with them, that they don't even know the PERFECT REPRESENTATION of their own God's name?
BWAHAHAHAHAHAHA
They spend millions of dollars telling people how important God's name is, but, dammit, they're not even sure what that name is! LOL! ROFLMAO!
Now if they don't even know how to pronounce their own God's name, what else, I ask you, may be amiss?
BWAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA
Lisa
the following piece of misleading wt thinking was emailed to me recently by a close friend see what you think.
the following words are plaguerised from another person, but i did feel they should be posted.
""under the title "is it wrong to pronounce gods name?
Yadirf says:
I feel that you're consumed with afaultfinding spirit
Lurkers take note. Yadork doesn't have a valid response to Caspian,
so he resorts to the Ad Hominem attack.
What is an Ad Hominem attack?
According to http://www.dictionary.com
Appealing to personal considerations rather than to logic or reason
Debaters should avoid ad hominem arguments that question their opponents' motives.
So there you have it. Yadork attacks the person rather than the logic. CLASSIC WTBS training!
Lisa
Edited by - LDH1 on 14 August 2002 16:16:35
yep we leave tommorrow!
it would be nice to meet some of you mean apostate type folk that deserve everlasting death etc.
btw i got this mailed to me.
ISP and fam:
Did you enjoy your visit to that pinnacle of American Society, Disneyland?
Why not go to Euro Disney, or even better, Afghanistan?
Lisa
well i went over test results so far and got more to do--as to going into detail well i just as soon not but i did leave outof there with a brand new walkwe - 4 wheels - a seat - a basket and candy apple red !!!
top of the line in walkers..what else can i say...lisa was in awe when i came back with it...that is it 4 now folks..have a safe and sane 4th all !!!
queenie
Hey Queenie, does it look like this one?
This company has online shopping.
Lisa
norway to defy ban, resume whale exports to iceland.
by inger sethov .
oslo (reuters) - norway said friday it would defy an international ban on commercial whaling and resume exports of whale meat to iceland after a 14-year break.
I noticed you did not address my real life scenario of "waiting to see" Jan.
Lisa