Sass...yep...it blewe up my family too as effectively as a quarter stick in a frog. Not only are half of my inlaws JWs but my mother in law was too...so my MIL and I are DAd, her two JW children shun her, one of which is my husband. She is not allowed to see the 5 grand children of her JW daughter. Her second husband is a JW elder and HE is constantly badmouthing his wife their MOTHER to the two adult JW children to endear HIMSELF to them and to make them shun her more if thats possible. Her 35 year old Downs Syndrome daughter who lives with her and the Elder, got baptized and now is being brainwashed into following whatever Elder step dad says to her about what her evil EXJW mother is doing or saying...and the NON JW siblings have decided to SHUN THE SHUNNERS to teach them a lesson about what it feels like to be SHUNNED!
God...its insane and heart breaking! We are all as divided as parallel lines to each other