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  What was the 1st thing you did that wasn't allowed after leaving the JW's?

  by cognac in

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  2. experiences

  i haven't left.... 1 thing while i'm actually in is being here though.... i'm happy here.

  i actually feel for the first time really "right" about something... .

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  lv4fer

  I went to a local Episcopal church(I was raised Episcopal) and took Holy Communion. I also voted in the next election.
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  I walked out of the "Oral Sex" instruction meeting today, anti witness!

  by MinisterAmos in

  1. watchtower
  2. beliefs

  any of you ex-dubs who are wondering why you left should read the study lesson today on oral sex.

  let's also consider that the borg considers it essential that the brothers bring their young childer to all the meetings and make sure that they pay attention to the material.

  the material this week included a very detailed description of oral sex!

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  lv4fer

  Can someone put this article up so I can copy it. I've had some interesting conversations with people at work and this will be great for some laughs:)
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  The psychological effects of faking dubism

  by LtCmd.Lore in

  1. jw
  2. friends

  well, i've known the truth about the witnesses for over two years.

  and i've been pretending to be one ever since.

  i'm sure most of us did that for a period of time, some longer than others.. i think it has changed my personality, especially since i've been a teenager the whole time.. .

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  lv4fer

  Wow....You are so young and yet have become quite wise. The world you are living in is a very small one at this time. When you are totally out the world is a lot larger. The need to lie will no longer be there. I think you will feel quite liberated when you are out and the need to lie will be gone. You will feel an unbelievable sense of peace when you can truly speak your mind without having to lie. I'm proud of you because you have the ability to think critically.
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  Visited the in-laws this past weekend

  by lv4fer in

  1. jw
  2. experiences

  omg what an experience.

  the last visit over a year ago went pretty uneventful.

  this time though......my mother-in-law started it.

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  lv4fer

  My husband wasn't there when she said that. I told him after we left. I didn't figure it would change anything if he said something to her. Only make future get togethers more difficult. I would hate for him to say something really mean to her and then something happen to her and then he might regret it. He is on my side though.
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  I hate Bank of America

  by lola28 in

  1. jw
  2. friends

  how many of you hate hate bof a as well and why?.

  lola.

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  lv4fer

  Over ten years ago I had a BofA account and then they let the majority of their full-time employees go only to re-hire them as part-time so they didn't have to pay the health insurance. I went in and closed my accounts and told them why I was leaving their bank.
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  First Christmas...Help!

  by BigBloomerz in

  1. social
  2. family

  ok so this will be the first xmas i have ever celbrated, i have no idea what to do, my man and his family are really into it and have traditions they have always kept to, and i love my new family and being involved in it all, but i havent a clue where to start!

  who to buy what for, how much do i spend?

  what cards do i buy?

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  lv4fer

  Follow their lead, watch and ask questions. Enjoy. Talk to others about their traditions and then come up with some of your own.
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  Visited the in-laws this past weekend

  by lv4fer in

  1. jw
  2. experiences

  omg what an experience.

  the last visit over a year ago went pretty uneventful.

  this time though......my mother-in-law started it.

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  lv4fer

  OMG what an experience. The last visit over a year ago went pretty uneventful. This time though......My mother-in-law started it. She told me I was the definition of evil. My kids (23&19) are living sinful lives because of my turning away from the "TRUTH" and of course I drug her son out. My husband said it will be a very long time before we go back to visit again.
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  It makes me sad to see Ray Franz looking this feeble...

  by deaconbluez in

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  http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=8yqj0-huvvw

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  lv4fer

  I think its AWESOME. He is doing great for his age. May he continue live on as long as he is able.
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  Who Would You Like To See As The Next President Of The USA?

  by minimus in

  1. jw
  2. friends

  even if they aren't running, who would you like to see as the next president?

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  Well, I'm not sure who the best candidate is at this point. I really don't like Clinton but I did listen to her the other day and I like what she had to say. However, I don't trust her AT ALL. I am registered as a Republican and I'm not real happy with my choices. I guess Guiliani. I'm pretty open at this point. To be honest I think I would do a better job. I would be a really good president. I am honest, smart and I am not beholdened to any of the various people or organizaitons that have given all the money to have the ones that are running.
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  Who thinks Cannabis/Marihuana should be legalised?

  by lfcviking in

  1. jw
  2. friends

  i think in most countries it is illegal to use this drug, so do you think it should be decriminalised, legalised & taxed, made legal for the medical proffesion or should it remain completely illegal?

  please state your reasons for your choice.. lfcv.

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  lv4fer

  I think they should legalize it. It would be easier to control. They almost passed a law here in Nevada for legalizing it under 1 oz. It almost past. For now it is just legal if you have a prescription. It's no different then alcohol.