Bluepill2
The sadest part is that your sister probably believes what she said was loving
I know when I was in I could see myself saying things like that and feeling proud of it.
For a religion that claims to have love they sure do a lot to destroy any natural affection between people.
suavojr
Your comment made me think how the dubs claim that they DF to keep the congregation clean but all it really does is force the "unclean" people to secretly remain and, likely and hopefully, become negative influence on the congregation they are trying to protect.