I've known an extraordinary number of persons who were not simply acquaintances that have committed suicide. Part of this is my longevity in the organization, partly because I have traveled extensively and thus had more exposure. Either way, the figures are statistically off the charts.
I've discussed this at great length with two professionals who are not JWs but very familiar with their beliefs, one a psychiatrist the other Leo Booth, Episcopalian priest, addiction specialist, and author of "When God Becomes a Drug." They both agree completely with what Larc has presented. I need not repeat the dynamics, because Larc has laid them out beautifully, and LDH's list is indeed comprehensive.
I need to emphasize a point: There is a vast difference between the suicide threat or attempt as a cry for help and the obsessive, compulsive rumination that ends in death. None should dare trivialize another's pain by making an unprofessional judgement without training; please seek professional help if you or someone you love has more than just the hills and valleys of life.
My experience tells me this: The final impulsive act is almost invariably one of complete despair. The pain of hanging on has become worse than the pain of letting go. Nature itself urges, yes compels self-preservation. Thus, the person who suicides is desperately ill, by definition. S/he sees no better choice.
Family members generally tell me the deceased could see no viable solution, despite their reassurances. Most tell me there were scant signs.
Experts refer to JW "toxic faith." In my experience, the longer and more deeply the person is exposed to toxins, the more difficult the recovery. When one finds that one's basic belief system is a lie, that's bad enough. But to face the shredding of family ties may be the ultimate.
Much of Western religious thought has been shaped by a warped Augustinian view of sin and punishment that inclines toward depression. The Christian message was originally one of freedom, and joy. That's another story.
Side bar: Clinical depression is different from the normal blahs. Modern medicine has a panoply, a variety of approaches to both chemical and mental imbalance. It's not just about Prozac any more. It's okay to ask for help.
I'm thinking about so many just now. Hayden Covington's beautiful son. Richard Wheelock, the factory overseer who jumped while at Bethel. So many.
And C. Whose quiet pain upon having her children and grandchildren forever ripped from her was unknown to others; she did not show it. Until she as quietly lay in a garage and ended it all, unwittingly also ending the life of her husband who lay sleeping in the bedroom above. Numbers? They would shock and titillate. I grieve for far too many dead, and their survivors.
As to responsibility? Know what? I think Dunscot made a good point today:
::2) I think that God will hold His representatives responsible for abusing their respective offices. A proper enunciation of God's law is supposed to emanate from the mouths of God's representatives (Mal 2:7).
Amen.
Maximus