Agreed. But remember, JWs live in their own little wishful utopia. They believe that if you work really hard at your marriage......and you "put Jehovah first".......then you will be yoked together as closely as possible and wonderful....blissful sex will surely follow. If it doesn't follow......then you must not be working at the other parts of your marriage or......gulp......perhaps not taking the ministry as seriously as you should.
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Sex before marriage would eliminate a lot of unhappy marriages in the Borg...
by sinis insensible, safe sex, in my opinion, should be engaged in.
because, as you get older and are ready to settle down, you will look at your potential sole mate, not for sexual reasons, but for what they have to offer mentally and if they are compatible.
when religion restricts this, and yuo must marry to have sex, i believe that you doom a marriage at the outset, because these young folks marry out of lust, only to have the rose colored blinders pulled off later, and regret the entire arrangement... .
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IT IS NOT A CULT!!
by Butterflyleia85 init is not a cult!!!
if you weren't mesmerized by the internet since ya know it never lies!
read the bible how do they go against it.
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*Lost* makes some very good points. I was the same way. I was literally shaking and short of breath when I opened Crises of Conscience for the first time.
When FREEDOM makes you nervous.......you are in a cult
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The July 15 Watchtower and all its new light is only...
by sosoconfused inmaking people cling to the organization more.
when i found out it was up i told so many people frantically that there is a new study article up and that it had so many changes.
my mother started crying saying how happy she is to be a part of an organization that is truly directed by jehovah... only the true faithful and discreeet slave could have such insight.... another person began to say how great it is to see the celestial chariot on the move.. .
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"When I was in I never really paid attention to that sort of stuff or tried to understand it because it was too loopy and I figured it didn't have much relevance to my day to day life. I wonder how many others there are who just go, "Meh, whatever."
Julia - I believe the MAJORITY feel that way. There are so many loops and stretches that the average JW just basically says "wow.....I don't understand. Good thing the FDS does though! And it sure is good that God isn't going to judge me based on MY understanding, but rather, how closely I follow the direction of the organization."
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The July 15 Watchtower and all its new light is only...
by sosoconfused inmaking people cling to the organization more.
when i found out it was up i told so many people frantically that there is a new study article up and that it had so many changes.
my mother started crying saying how happy she is to be a part of an organization that is truly directed by jehovah... only the true faithful and discreeet slave could have such insight.... another person began to say how great it is to see the celestial chariot on the move.. .
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"My wife is so close to saying screw this but she then gets scared... its so funny."
She is captive to the concept that somehow someway even through lies, cover ups, mistakes etc.......this is STILL GOD's ORGANIZATION. Has she read Don Cameron's book "Captives of a Concept" yet? Until she can realize that there is no way God could have chosen them in 1919......she will remain in fear.
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The July 15 Watchtower and all its new light is only...
by sosoconfused inmaking people cling to the organization more.
when i found out it was up i told so many people frantically that there is a new study article up and that it had so many changes.
my mother started crying saying how happy she is to be a part of an organization that is truly directed by jehovah... only the true faithful and discreeet slave could have such insight.... another person began to say how great it is to see the celestial chariot on the move.. .
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"My mother started crying saying how happy she is to be a part of an organization that is truly directed by Jehovah... only the true faithful and discreeet slave could have such insight...
ANother person began to say how great it is to see the celestial chariot on the move."
OMG. The CULT SPEAK is awful! True JWs cannot even speak without sounding like a controlled puppet!
I think this is exactly as many predicted. I believe this was a calculated move by the GB. I think they know this will weed out the thinkers, thus causing them to lose a scant percentage of their base followers but not enough to cripple them financially. It also allows them to grip the remaining flock even tighter since the remaining flock is now willingly putting 100% trust in 8 men.
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Disfellowshipped for PARTAKING
by irondork ini wonder if anyone has ever been disfellowshipped just for partaking.
of course they would eventually tag it as apostacy, but the real reason would stand - and could get the attention of local media.. .
the newsies tend to shy away from doctrinal entanglements, but the idea of a "christian" church disfellowshipping one of their own for taking the sacrament - surely that would raise someones eyebrow.
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"I have a friend who partakes at home after the official KH Memorial because he caught too much flack about thinking he was of the "annointed". I've read of several on here who do the same. Perhaps this is more common than you might imagine.
Doc"
When you have to hold your own secret worship sessions at home because your church (or in this case kingdom hall) isn't quite cutting it.....isn't it time you re-visit your beliefs and/or religion?
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Bethel Brother's explanation to young mother as to WHY God would destroy children at armegeddon
by Newly Enlightened inback when we were still active in the cong.
we became friends with a young couple with 2 small kids.
they were newly baptized and wanting a better future for their kids.
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"One I heard in Pioneer school referring to making return visits on people that will never come in the truth, You go and place a magazine, then you go back and place a book, then go back and have some nice conversations all the while you think your sawing off a little bit of the goat's horns but in reality you've got nothing but a 'bloody goat' so quit wasting your time with bloody goats!"
Wow. How incredibly touching. You must have felt an overwhelming amount of holy spirit in the room after that rhetoric.
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WHY DO SOME ELDERS LOOSE THEIR POSITION OVER BANKRUPTCY AND OTHERS DON'T?
by ÁrbolesdeArabia inanother story of the love in the christian congregation of jehovah witnesses!.
elder squidbilly was gunning for a brother who screwed up with his real estate portfolio in a bad way.
squid-billy made the case this brother had managed his holding in a unchristian and greedy way, so he appealed to the body to remove him for theft!
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All you have to do is kiss up to the right people at the right time.
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The CO 'encourages' Julia to meet with THREE elders- the latest episode in the best-selling drama, The Fade of Julia Orwell.
by Julia Orwell init was yesterday morning and hubby and i were having a huge sleep in.
it was just after ten, and with me being a bit flu-ey i was quite capable of staying in bed longer.
hubby was feeling it too, and we were pleasantly drifting in and out to the sounds of birds.. then suddenly, cloomp, cloomp, cloomp up the front stairs, then "rap-rap-rap" on the front screen door, that rapid-fire, strong knock of the practiced door-knocker.
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I agree with Satanus. There ARE some good hearted COs and elders out there. But make no mistake. They are company men. The need to protect the organization pervades even the most sincere of hearts.
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When You Learned TTATT, the truth about the truth(tm) How Did It Make You Feel?
by LoisLane looking for Superman in.
i felt stunned.
i felt betrayed.. just lois.
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scared. then angry