I was raised a Witness, and I can completely relate to nearly every point mentioned in the OP. Thanks for the tip on the book.
Still dealing with the years of emotional abuse I've been subjected to by both parents. Their unhappiness and lack of self-respect and respect of other family members is probably the first thing that seriously started to turn me away from the faith as a child. If these people have found "The Truth," then why aren't they happier, and why do they behave the way they do (always justifying their mistreatment on Biblical scriptures pointing to children needing to subject themselves to parental authority).
Even the other day, when I tried to raise a valid question with my father about the organization's interpretation of Matthew 24, he responded in an abusive manner, talking about how he didn't want to hear that "garbage," demeaning me saying who am I to think that I could find the Truth if the organization can't, and basically just using the opportunity to insult me rather than rationally discuss the points I was trying to raise. It sickened me, but fit perfectly into the pattern he's been practicing through my whole life. Using the scriptures as a justification for emotional abuse rather than as inspiration towards true compassion or empathy. So at that point I decided not to give a **** if he's determined to spend the rest of his life as a blindfolded idiot. Sigh.
Glad I found this forum.