Hi Tom
I want to start off by saying that I appreciate your interesting story and you are just as welcome to the board as anyone holding different beliefs. As I got into this thread late also, I don’t want to rehash everything that was discussed between Larc and yourself but I thought I would make the few points for the benefit of all.
First, I’m and atheist’s atheist. Essentially I believe there is enough scientific and logical evidence to satisfy ME personally (not everyone) that the existence of the JW type God is impossible. This doesn’t exclude some definitions of what God could be in my understanding, but again I reject completely the JW ideology of what they believe God to be both in terms of a corporeal being and the said personality characteristics of such an presumed entity. I won’t go into the evidence here as to why I feel that way, I just wanted to let you know that some atheists do indeed feel this way and their choice is made by investigation and research.
I would also like to say that I’ve had extensive personal contact with literally several hundred atheists (at one time I was a supporting member of American Atheists and routinely attended meetings and rallies) and I wanted to tell you that YES, there are many reasons why people become atheistic and quite often it is not a studied decision, and can in fact be based completely on emotional or circumstantial events. There are certainly many people who become atheist or agnostic for reasons of logical inquiry and an honest search for understanding. Quite often in the online world you will see passionate debates between atheists and Christians, and of course here on the board as well. This doesn’t mean that everyone is as zealous or confrontational any more than the same being true for each Christian or members of other belief systems. I just mention this because you might end up getting in a flame war sometime online and it is easy to think that when you are up to your ass in alligators that everyone wants to get a bite out of you. Actually in person you will find a lot of these same people to be warm and fuzzy, extra friendly but sometimes online we all seem to play to win, and that gets carried to extremes sometimes and leaves a bad taste in everyone’s mouth.
I thought you did a really good job of presenting yourself as reasonable in your posts and trying to clarify things. I wish we could all do a better job of this.
In closing I would like to make one final point for the benefit of both Christians and Atheists on this board. It is easy to hijack a thread and turn it into a battleground, especially when some or all parties either perceive sarcastic hits or outright attacks. It becomes very personal then and often just resorts to name-calling and degenerates from there. I don’t think anyone benefits at that point, and in the heat of passion we can often make ourselves look like fools just by being suckered into a confrontational fight. I therefore suggest to everyone that if there is a big issue that you want to debate, devoid of the emotionalism and personal attacks, and to do so in a fun way…then start a debate and label it as so. To see an example of this, you might want to look at the thread: Do JW's Deserve Respect—The Debate in which this topic was done in a “court room” setting where both sides had to play fair. It shows that we can have diverse ideas presented without beating up on each other.
Kind Regards,
Skipper