Sic Semper Tyrannis:The man shouldn't have made the oath, whether or not it was his own daughter or a servant girl. It's a disgusting practice regardless of what period of time he lived in. Upon finding his daughter coming out first, Jephthah should have offered up his own sorry ass in her place.
exactly, he should not have make the oath, he thought making the oath would cause God to give him victory, he didnt know God would have given him the victory regardless of any oath.
undercover:Who the hell is Jepthah to make a promise to send his daughter into servitude at the temple for life? Who is he to deny her the choice of having a family? She didn't make any promises. She obviously didn't want to serve at the temple (and obviously wouldn't have been too keen on the sacrifice bit either, I'm sure) thus crying over her virginity (if she was even a virgin to begin with. Dad was off to war...who knows what went on in his absence...
what makes you think gender played any role over here? the outcome would have been the same regardless of who came to meet him first, it could even have been his dad or bros.