Why do Jehovahs Witnesses have to be reminded to be
thoughtful?
tactful?
use discretion?
be kind?
most people are taught this stuff in kindergarten and by their parents and grow up and assume their place in the world and just naturally display these qualities to whatever degree their personality and rearing geared them to.
The average person does not sit down and read a Watchtower using pre/adolescent level language to "teach/nag/cajole the behavior out if them. Life teaches you that if you want people to like you - you play nice.
Why do the Witnesses need "extra" reminding above and beyond and why do they fail at the basics even in spite of the "reminders"?