Gumby,
I left the Jw's 9 years ago, and remained a very active christian during this time. This past year after speaking to many people I would never have spoken to in any of the circles I travel, my mind was opened to many new possibilities. I had two choices, either stay in my little world and not explore other options, or explore this new world and try to understand why others had the beliefs they had.
I am not happy with you saying that those who do not believe in god are throwing him out the window. I think that demeans the act of logical thinking and the research I have put into this. I no longer believe in god, not because it is an easier road, I actually think it is much harder to not have a "reward" at the end of the tunnel. I no longer believe in god because I refuse to accept the god of the bible for who he/she claims to be. After learning even more about the evolutionary process, the concept is no loner tangible to me, I never had a problem with the lifestyle.
One thing I have a problem with is people who refuse to be honest with themselves and admit that belief in god is not an obligation of the human race. And those that are closeminded enough to think that if you don't believe in god there is something morally wrong with you.
Pssstt, it is okay not to believe in god. It is okay to talk to others who do not share your beliefs and still remain on friendly terms with them, and to hold your own beliefs. I think the benefits of your family getting out of the org, and the friendships they may find here, are well worth you sharing this site with them. Also honestly ask yourself how much different it would be if they no longer believe in god. There may be some things you won't share anymore, such as prayer, and religious worship, but I doubt their actual personalities will change at all. Are you thinking that when a person realizes that the concept of god is not for them, then they are not worthy of your love? Perhaps you feel that moral character and the belief in god is intertwined?
wendy
When I leave, you will know I have been here