Lapuce

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  For those of you who don't go to meetings anymore...

  by exwitless in

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  when you attended your last meeting ever as a dub, did you know it was your last?

  did something happen which made it clear in your mind you were 'never going back' (not to be confused with nvrgnbk)?.

  the last meeting we went to was the memorial in 2006. we only went because we knew we were already pegged for the elders' unwanted attention, so we had to go to keep them off our backs a little longer.

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  I didn't know when it was my last meeting, but I knew that I will never go back as they told me in a phone call not too long ago, to say with my wife even if she didn't want to sleep with me anymore and be in a different room. I am now seperated, met a great woman and soon will be divorced and have a new life, and DF'ed as a bonus.... free at last.
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  Who is the least noticed poster on this board?

  by John Doe in

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  Lapuce

  I guess myself.......???
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  What is your most favorite hobby?

  by R.F. in

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  just wanting to find out some of you all's hobbies.. my favorite is video gaming.

  i love it and i love visiting video gaming stores.

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  Electric trains HO scale..... Also antiques and old telephones.
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  Do you remember the first time you opened your bible in front of someone

  by JH in

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  i remember when i became a jw, i was almost ashamed to bring my bible around and open it and read verses to people and friends who weren't jw.. i felt that they would think i'm weird..... .

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  I did not like it one bit, as I am a shy person by nature, and did not like speaking to people I did not know in the first place. And adding the stress that you know that they hate JW's.... It wasn't my cup of tea.
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  Did You Ever Find The "Truth" Was Ever " Exciting"???

  by minimus in

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  after reading the thread by truthseeker regarding the district convention, and realizing that they were trying to tell people, especially young ones, that the "truth" is "exciting", i just had to ask you, did you ever feel that the "truth" was "exciting"?

  i never ever did..

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  Lapuce

  Yes I too got excited my some of the sisters.... Thats about it the rest made me fall asleep!
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  60 YEARS OLD.......MY FIRST TATOO

  by HappyDad in

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  my foot tastes kind of nasty......like the recent response i made to a post about "sexual positions" (what is sex?

  ) it is a done deal and i apologize for it as i have done at other times here.. ok.....i'm done with my apology......i have salved my conscience.

  ok.......you get my point.

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  Great going.... I have 2 myself, planning on getting a third one later this summer.
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  Social Anxiety Disorders

  by Thinking of Leaving in

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  hi everyone, the guy i'm currently dating suffers from social phobia and it's beginning to affect our relationship.

  does anyone have any experience dealing with this?

  i have to admit this is all new to me, most of the guys i've dated are pretty normal, but this one seems to need some extra care.

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  My shrink that I see actually told me that my social phobia was caused by all the events being a JW. I am in treatment now.... It helps alot... I know that if you do get the right help it will go away.
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  If you could repeat your life.

  by DJK in

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  sorry for the edit.

  this may have been a topic before.. i got the idea for this from crumpets thread "if i could make your dreams come true what would they be?".

  i have been asked many times "if i could go back in my life and change it, what would i do?

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  I would have never married a JW and I would have done the things I wanted to do, I would probally one of those people that live backpacking across Europe and Asia....
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  When a DFed anointed one get reinstated..............what happens ??????

  by vitty in

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  i have just found out that an appointed member of a congregation i know has been dfed for drinking, this person has had a problem for years but her daughter dobbed her in................anyway i was wondering what happens if she gets reinstated, will she still be one of the anointed or has she lost her crown.

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  It really makes us of the great crowd feel not worthy enough as we were not picked... Another fine example of christian love....
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  Does Being A Jehovah’s Witness Lead To Disorders?

  by The wanderer in

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  <!-- .style1 { font-size: 18px; font-family: arial; } .style3 { font-family: arial; font-size: 16px; } .style4 { font-size: 12px; font-family: verdana, arial, sans-serif; } .style5 {color: #ff0000} .style6 {font-size: 12px; font-family: verdana, arial, sans-serif; font-style: italic; } --> does being a jehovahs witness lead to disorders?the life of being one of jehovahs witnesses was a challenging one at best .

  and an agonizing one at worst.

  i recall the days of my black depression .

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  Well for me it made go on anti-depressants, atempted suicide 3 time and I was sent in the pyscho ward at 2 different times for a few weeks. I divorced and remarried the same women after a 4 year seperation. And today I am now happy one bit, yes I have a house and two lovely boys, but I am a now emotionaly troubled ever since, I was DA then re-instated now inactive for almost 2 years, and thinking that at 40 I don't want to stay in a house where my wife continues with witnessing and not wanting to have a normal life. So that is what I became of all of the WT bull that was feed into me. I wasted 13 years of my life...