this is an interesting article and interesting comments, dedalus. i'll look forward to going thru it myself.
i like the expression about homogenization of these life-stories. like, did every one of these contributors decide unanimously that the best format to use for their story was:
"i was in this perilous/bizarre/humourous situation that makes for a good attention-getting first paragraph. how did i come to be in this situation? read on, despite the type size getting smaller and there being less attention-grabbing content in the paragraph just finished, i promise to get to the situation i just mentioned by about the third page. after i get thru the basic boring facts of my life and ministry up to that point, that is."
there's obviously a lot of coaching and editing that goes on. however, i would not be too quick to attribute the expressions of the father in this article to propogandist-minded editors. (not that you were.) it sounds to me very much like the type of insular, clinical thinking that people in such tragic points in their life use to protect themselves from the reality of the pain. its that kind of protection from pain that makes me and many others so reluctant to disturb the faith of other JWs when they're not looking for or ready for answers yet. imagine how traumatic an experience it would be for this father, assuming the sentiments of the article to be genuine, if his own personal watchtower-provided armor came crumbling away from him.
i also thought this point in the conclusion was incredibly interesting, though you didnt comment on it:
Jonathan is determined to raise Oscar to love and serve Jehovah, and Vicki and I will assist him in every way possible. It is our heartfelt desire to be on hand in God's new world to welcome Theresa back and introduce her to the son that she did not get to hold in her arms.
wont this be kind of a bittersweet reunion, according to the WT understanding? the child will probably have a new mother, her husband's new and eternal wife. what kind of role could theresa have in the life of her child if she is no longer able to be a family member?
mox