When both of my Granparents died, within a few years of each other, there were TONS of JW's at both funerals, because my parents are still "IN", and have been since the 70's. My parents have hundreds of JW "friends", and MANY TRUE friends, both JW and not.
Anyway, i am/was DF'd, and almost EVERYBODY came up to me and hugged me, and gave me condolences for losing my Grandparents. Of course, i know, and rightly so, they were there more for my Father, as it was his parents who died, but i was treated very "normal".
I was love "bombed" by the Elders, but many in the R&F did not care what anybody "thought", and went up to me. There was one IDIOT elder, and he was always an idiot, the fact that he IS an Elder, shows how desperate they are for "qualified men", and this dopes ONLY words to me, at the funeral, were " Have you thought about coming back to the truth". Out of respect for my Father, i did NOT kick his knees out, punch him in his throat, and carry him over my shoulder and out the funeral homes front door. Instead, i said "no", and walked away.
As nice as this was, to at least be "acknowledged" by these people, i had to go to the Kingdom hall like 6 months later, for a brothers who was a business partner of mines funeral talk. Well ALL those SAME Elders, WOULD NOT EVEN LOOK AT ME NOW. It was ridiculous, almost comical. I felt like saying, "what happened", remember like 6 months ago we said hello, now you are literally waling by me, pretending i am not here". If it didnt hurt so much, it would be almost childish in behavior, like they were scared little 4 year olds of the "boogey man".
Quite a few of the R&F, DID acknowledge me at the KH, and waved or smiled, BUT NOT the elders, but yet just 6 months before, they were love bombing me at a funeral. CRAZY!!!!!!