to cut very long story short , my inlaws have not seen my child for 18months we left the area they live 2 years ago after a ex min servant was sent to prison for abusing kids including my eldest child , understandably i wanted a fresh start !
today my jw motherinlaw tried to give her disfellowshipped son ten pounds for our child (her granchild she hasnt seen for 18 months ) he asked her why ?
she told him i told her it was best if they didnt see our child anymore just before i left town (half hour drive away from our new home ) this is not true at all !
now they really have blown it and will miss out on a lovely little girl and will go to the grave never seeing armageddon !
if they're that nasty i'd think long and hard before trying to force them to have contact, sounds like theye doing you a favour staying out of your lives.
and i feel good!
it was a long time coming.
i stopped going to meetings june 09. the reason i left it so long is because my husband is still in and for this reason i see witnesses from time to time.
congratulations
some of you have read what i wrote on this thread: http://www.jehovahs-witness.net/jw/friends/200211/1/never-wake-up.
here's the final email my wife just sent me 1 minute ago:.
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have you managed to get some legal advice yet?
if your wife is beyond reach you need to start the process to make sure you're not alienated from your children as well.
http://news.yahoo.com/s/ap/lt_chile_mine_collapse.
by michael warren, associated press writer michael warren, associated press writer 11 mins ago end .byline san jose mine, chile the first of 33 men was rescued tuesday night after 69 days trapped in a collapsed mine, pulled to fresh air and freedom at last in a missile-like escape capsule to the cheers of his family and countrymen.. florencio avalos, wearing a helmet and sunglasses to protect him from the glare of rescue lights, smiled broadly as he emerged and hugged his sobbing 7-year-old son, bairo, and wife.
he also embraced chilean president sebastian pinera and rescuers.. also on hand was avalos' other son and father.. after the capsule was pulled out of a manhole-sized opening, avalos emerged as bystanders cheered, clapped and broke into a chant of "chi!
5 now.
my dad read something online that i posted and told the other elders (he's the boe coord.).
they've read me articles about homosexuality and tried to coerce me to stay with the family instead of living with my uncle for a week.
i went to my uncle's anyway.
as youre only away for the week, they'll just get you when you go home.
have been cross - not feeling so great lately.
i've been taking care of 6 dogs residing at different homes.
rover was just being friendly and i snapped at him.
Also, if I walk over to him with the leash in my hand to guide him into obedience, he rolls over on his back as soon as I approach, and nothing...NOTHING can get him off his back to make him stand up again.
thats weird, dogs usually go nuts when they see their leads cos they associate it with pleasure and walks, maybe the lead has a different association to your dog?
http://topdocumentaryfilms.com/return-to-africas-witch-children/.
after watching it, read my comment below............ .
i felt god's disgust with that.
i was raised by a wonderful and close family.
i loved my congregation growing up.
when i would go to the meetings, i felt i could go to school the next day and deal with the pressures of that day.
you've left behind the unhappines and lonliness, do you really deep down want to take yourchildren back there?
maybe you could get hold of the steven hassan books, it may help you come to terms with why youre feeling the pull.
and welcome
the last 15 days have been hard.. 10 days without a computer is hell.. i said this on another thread but want to say it again.. thank you so much to those of you who have contributed to getting me a computer and back on line.
this new baby of mine is awesome.
it would have taken me months to save up enough money to either fix the old (which i think would have needed to be rebuilt) or buy another.
welcome back and hope those bruises disapear fast
anyone have a good read of the ypa article on homosexuality?.
is it just me or is the doctrine becoming more lenient and less dogmatic?.
**Should I have mentioned "wrongdoing" in my letter or should I remove it? What do you think?**
as and when you do get to send your letter, you're under no obligation to tell them anything.
