Posts by nevaagain

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Canadian branch getting rid of their trucks and drivers

by wannaexit in

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a recent letter to the elders outlined the new arrangement for delivering literature to the congregations.

the canadian branch will be downsizing by eliminating drivers and trucks and utilizing commercial carriers to bring the boxes of monthly literature .

more outsourcing and more lay offs.. the funny thing about it is that they want to have the literature delivered to various private homes of the rank and file rather than have the literature delivered to the kingdom hall.

nevaagain

I am in europe and this happened 6 months ago here.

The brothers here dont seem to be too happy about this new arrengement. For example, a big congregation near our is being used a big hub where aprox. 30 other congregations have to pick up their literature, so whenever literature is getting delivered a huge swarm of bros/sis have to sort them out for the 30 congregations. Previously the bethel truck would deliver the literature on a Friday and they had the weekend to do the job and starting with Monday we were able to pick up our literature. Now UPS delivers the literature a couple of days later on a Monday so everybody has to wait one week to pickup the literature because the bros can only do the work of sorting out the literature for the congregations on a weekend.

The brother who signs up on the delivery papers is not too happy either, previously he was good friends with the bethel truck driver and because he had a long route, he even stayed there over night. Now the communication with UPS is not existed, they even arrive at different times so the bro signing up the deliver paper has to stay there a whole day waiting for UPS.

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... and keep fighting

by nevaagain in

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last week we had the cos visit and i wanted to share my experiences with you.

some background info on me, i knowttatt and am fully awake, my wife also knows my doubts and read a few things on the internet but she is still 100% commited to the truth, saying everything on the apostate sites are lies.

so right now i am in just to keep the status quo.

nevaagain

TheListener yea I can see where you are coming from. But being a born in, baptised now for 20 years it might be easier. I dont have any other friends outside of the WT, I dont have family outside of the WT. I am not ready to leave everything behind, be shunned from my family and friends ... still working on the exit plan

sad thing is, i have known the TTATT since before I got married, forgot everything when I moved away from home because it was easy to make new friends in the WT then i met my future wife in the new congregation ...

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... and keep fighting

by nevaagain in

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last week we had the cos visit and i wanted to share my experiences with you.

some background info on me, i knowttatt and am fully awake, my wife also knows my doubts and read a few things on the internet but she is still 100% commited to the truth, saying everything on the apostate sites are lies.

so right now i am in just to keep the status quo.

nevaagain

@hoser

the first lunch was private at our place, the second lunch was at a restaurant after the sunday meeting with everybody from the congragation who wanted to join. maybe i should have added this information into my posting, sorry.

anyway I dont think i was being setup and if yes i dont think i said anything which could incriminate me.

this whole thing seemed surreal though ... i had to pinch myself because i thought i am still dreaming

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... and keep fighting

by nevaagain in

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last week we had the cos visit and i wanted to share my experiences with you.

some background info on me, i knowttatt and am fully awake, my wife also knows my doubts and read a few things on the internet but she is still 100% commited to the truth, saying everything on the apostate sites are lies.

so right now i am in just to keep the status quo.

nevaagain

i know, i would have never brought up that topic on my own! all i want is to fly under the radar and appear to be a normal brother who just doesnt make enough to be considered as a MS, but still more than the minimum so he cant be bothered.

but i can only imagine that the CO would ask the substitute moments later when we werent around, what was he thinking bringing up that topic before a lowly brother.

maybe in a few years when they want to try me for apostacy, and they asked me how everything begun i can cite exactly that moment, that made me to start questioning everything haha

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The new RBC

by drawcad_1 in

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the new rbc now called the ldc.

sold to us as new and improved rbc.

working with all of the congregation funds after we sent them all back to new york and what have they done.

nevaagain

Our congregation is in a building with three halls. Even though the building cant be that old, it shows his age because no renovations were ever done. So everybody in our congregation was glad that the new arrangement came because finally now our building can be renovated.

Indeed a couple of weeks after that announcement a delegation showed up to inspect our building and the elders showed them everything that needs to be done (basicly everything). Couple of days later I ask one of the elders how it went and he kinda dissapointed told me, that probably not much is going to happen to our hall.

Apparently they told them, if they replace our heating system, they cannot build one hall in africa. If they renovate our bathrooms, there goes another hall in africa and so on, so all of the elders arguments were shot down. Basicly they were guilt tripping our elders.

Funny thing is, it is not like we were short of funds, before the announcement of the changes was made we had for years saved funds for much needed renovations.

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... and keep fighting

by nevaagain in

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friends

last week we had the cos visit and i wanted to share my experiences with you.

some background info on me, i knowttatt and am fully awake, my wife also knows my doubts and read a few things on the internet but she is still 100% commited to the truth, saying everything on the apostate sites are lies.

so right now i am in just to keep the status quo.

nevaagain

Last week we had the COs visit and I wanted to share my experiences with you. Some background info on me, I know
TTATT and am fully awake, my wife also knows my doubts and read a few things on the internet but she is still 100% commited to the truth, saying everything on the apostate sites are lies. So right now I am in just to keep the status quo. Both of us are born in with every family member being in the truth ...

Anyway about the CO visit, this is the second time and at the same time it is going to be the last time we have this particular CO couple, because of circuit changes (dont JWs love to juggle around with the circuits?!?) This time our CO couple was accompanied with a second couple, apparently the substitute CO also needs to "practise" from time to time.

So my wife wanted to invite them for lunch. At first I was a little bit hesitated to invite them, but my wife
as I said being 100% commited to the truth wanted to invite them and since my wife already sees me an apostate
(tried to woke my wife up, didnt work but we have some kind of truce, thats going to be a different story)
so I didnt say no. I also didnt want to stirr anything up

So they came for lunch, and after a while, the substitute CO brought the topic about child abuse in
Australia up. I wanted to say something but I remained tight lipped, not to reveal more than I would possibly know.
My wife looked at me with a WTF face - awhile ago I had already told her about the cases that the WT
lost in the US and we didnt really expect that topic being brought up at our homes from one of the CO, albeit
the substitude CO but still!

The real CO tried to play it down saying that it was mostly worldly ppl who abuse witness kids, then his wife
weighted in, saying that she knows ppl in every congregation who were abused as a kids and that the problem
is indeed widespread. The substitude added that it is indeed the WT being on trial here, because they were
apperently trying to keep the brothers from going to the authorities. I think the substitude CO repeated that
a few times!

Now the real CO tried to shoot it down, saying that the elders would never tell the parents not to go to the
police and the allegations have no claim. I knew it was dangerous but I wanted to say something, so I said.
Maybe, just maybe some elders tried to keep it in the congregation and told the parents not to go to the police.
The real CO was baffled! The substitude agreed with me and even added that he personally knows cases like that.

We changed topic after that, but what is still puzzling me is, why did the substitude bring up that topic?!?
Keep in mind, the real CO and the substitude, they didnt know each other before and possibly the first
time they were eating together was at our place, so maybe the substitude was testing the waters with the CO?
Maybe he knows the TTATT? I know if I would have brought up that topic my wife would have looked mad at me,
but the substitudes wife was even participating at that topic!

CO Week went over quick (thankfully for that). Went to both of the field service meetings on saturday. So funny,
they are over after 5 minutes they dont even make sense anymore. Our parking lot was still occupied from
the brothers who had their field service meeting before us, waited till they were gone so we can park. Went into
the meeting two minutes late and it was already half finished!

Sunday after the meeting we went to lunch with the both CO couples. After we were finished and the (real) CO
couples wanted to leave, they hugged us both (my wife and me) said some words and then added "... and keep fighting"

If that is not cult speak, what is?!?!

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Why some smart people believe the JWs/Bible

by jws in

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i consider myself smart.

go ahead, laugh.

i have a sense of humor too.. but i grew up a jw and also believed in the bible.

nevaagain

even though i wouldnt consider myself to be the smartest on the planet, i wouldnt consider myself to be dumb as well. but your story @jws sounds similar to mine, except the fact that i am still in, anyway.

Before i got baptized my elder dad who I consider to be book smart (he reads a lot!!!, even worldly literature!!!) used to tell me, that i should research if thats the truth. So I asked him, where should I start with my research, and he would always point to the bible and the jw literature.

But see, being at the age of 13/14/15 I had better things to do that spend my free time doing research in the bible when I was barely doing my homework because of other interests.

But kudos to my dad for not pushing me to get baptized while everybody else was, especially my mom who I love a lot, but she is not the brightest person.

So reasons why I got baptized:

- To get everybody who was pushing me to get baptised off my back (that was every person who wanted to go out in service with me and my mom)
- Putting a stop to the study with my parents
- Make my parents proud

Thats how I got baptized at the age of 15. Add the fact that my friends back then were also getting baptized I being shy back then, I didnt want to do that step alone.

Speaking about my book smart dad, I had a lot of discussions about 607/1914 and the generation changes with my dad. Sometimes he appears open minded and sometimes he appears as a cult member, which tells me that he probably also has his doubts. Regarding 607 he said that he believes that the WTS did their research and probably everybody else is wrong. He doesnt like the new teaching regarding the generation, he thinks it is way too complicated and the average rink and file member would never understand it. But at the end of the day, he told me with his own words "even if the wts is wrong, where should we go?"

and i thinkt thats the reason that even some smart members stay

sidenote: isnt it funny that before you are allowed to get baptized they ask you 100+ questions but you can still get baptized for all the wrong reasons?

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Have you ever had a JW role model?

by nevaagain in

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the jw hero thread motivated me to make this thread.

so when you were still in, did you have a role model which was also a jw?.

when i was young (pre school) my parents were friends with another young couple, which also happaned to live nearby.

nevaagain

The JW Hero thread motivated me to make this thread. So when you were still in, did you have a role model which was also a JW?

When I was young (pre school) my parents were friends with another young couple, which also happaned to live nearby. I remember us doing a lot with them, they also happaned to have a boy in my age. I remember him as very kind to me, sometimes bringing me even presents when he and his family came for a visit (thats how I got my first Walkman).

He was an elder who gave enthusiastic talks which also were easy to follow, he was also good as a dad, often doing stuff with his kids and he also had a well paid job. He would not even hesitate to move around for better paid jobs.

He was my JW role model for a very long time... I also wanted to become like him, successful in the truth and build also a nice carreer for me.

Of course everything changed ... as he became richer he also became a jerk. He was still giving good talks from the platform at conventions but he would also flaunt around his newest cellphones/cars whatever... and then his talks also stopped when he cheated on his wife during a shepherding call where he visited the sister alone ...

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Is door to door activity over?

by badcompany in

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just curious about others experience.

i've been living just a few miles from a kingdom hall for 9 years.

i've been called on 0 times.

nevaagain

D2D is not over but it is on the demise that is true. In my old congregation(s) only a handfull of witnesses came to the field service meeting on Saturday and I doubt the others went to service without going to the field service.

In this congregation we are in at the moment, even though more come to the field service, many just want to do "easy" witnessing. We have a lot of interested ones coming to the congregation with no plans of getting baptized, they have kids, often more than three. They always want a witness to study with them. 80% who come to the (new and improved 5 - 7 minute) field service meeting go studies and maybe only the 20% are going from door to door.

From my own experience, whenever a pioneer asks me to go to service with him, it is always a study or a return visit/magazine route thing. Actually, the first time I went with an elder to preach when we relocated congregations and he saw that I was taking him to a territory with zero adresses but lots of small houses and this meant a lot of searching, he deemed it time wasting and we should have gone into the city and did street witnessing instead.

Then we have the zealot pioneers which embraced social networks and probably count time on there as well. I even heard of witnesses conducting studies over Skype!

So yeah Witnesses try avoid door to door.

But my report might not be accurate as I am not in a congregation where they speak the local language.

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1 Meeting for each of your fingers ? ? ?

by william draper in

anybody remember how this became a doctrine , years ago , we were at the meetings so that out fingers would be learning something .

..

nevaagain

they could still argue that family worship is like the fifth meeting. anyway, i was always against 5 meetings. for me it was a huge burden to have to go to two meetings during a week. i was always missing the book study and whenever someone would question my behaviour i would say, that if the organization would axe a meeting it would be that one. i think attendence of that meeting was down to 50% or so. and at the end i was right!