Posts by erbie

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Women who have affairs...are they DUMB to think he will leave his wife?

by Witness 007 in

"yes he does love me....it's just a bad time now with the kids and all...and money...he doesn't love her anymore, it just the kids....he said we can keep meeting at $40 hotels for "awhile" longer....till he sorts things out...and we can be together.".

this could be 1955 or 2011 and dumb girls still fall for this crap????

for real????

erbie

It's funny really, I recently got back in contact with a lapsed sister who I've known since childhood but had not seen for some time. I always thought the world of her and just recently I've realised just how much I've always loved her. She is also married but the time I have spent with her (nothing sexual or improper) has made me realise how good things could be. I shouldn't covet another mans wife (aparently) but if I had the chance then I would give everything I have to be with her. I know she's not completely happy where she is and I just know that she's the one that occupies that special place in my heart and anything short of her won't do. At least that is how I feel. Spending just a little time with her has changed everything. Surely the gods won't deny me just a little happiness.

Yes I know I'm contradicting myself and I know that my situation has driven me a little bit mad. Just a little.

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Women who have affairs...are they DUMB to think he will leave his wife?

by Witness 007 in

"yes he does love me....it's just a bad time now with the kids and all...and money...he doesn't love her anymore, it just the kids....he said we can keep meeting at $40 hotels for "awhile" longer....till he sorts things out...and we can be together.".

this could be 1955 or 2011 and dumb girls still fall for this crap????

for real????

erbie

Well folks, my wife was unfaithful but I can't make her leave cos I want the kids and it's brought misery, misery, misery. I felt like I'd had my stomach ripped out. I don't believe in anything anymore. Love, marriage, happy ever after, all a delusion. There is only unhappiness for me. There you have it. But if it works for you then I'm happy for you. As for me; miserable bloody existence! Bugger! I can't believe how good it gets and I remember being taught the value of love and the sanctity of marriage. In the real world everybody is fair game, even your wife, so look out.

I won't insist that everything I say is right but it's the way I see things which is distorted and twisted beyond recognition. And I used to be such a hopeful.

Bad times.

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Land SELL-OFF DREAMING BIG

by Refriedtruth in

jehovah's witnesses' land sell-off has brooklyn dreaming bigcrain's new york business - amanda fung-1 hour ago.

at stake are 34 mint-condition properties in brooklyn heights and dumbo that the jehovah's witnesses spent decades accumulating and now are considering ...it's always has been about the money...they talk about pristine real estate and the excellent pool of skilled craftsmen/women .

hey what about the paradise for my family 4 generations that slaved?.

erbie

Well, it explains how the org became so wealthy. What a great way to make money! Get volunteers to build Kingdom Halls and then sell them off. And the volunteers don't question it because they think Jehovah needs the money.

Brilliant!!!

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Is The WTBTS' View Of Homosexuality Softening?

by JW GoneBad in

or at least the public may be given the impression that jws and the wtbts are fair minded and do not discriminate against the homosexual lifestyle.

check out this quote from the nov 1, 2011 watchtower (public edition).

the article on page 4 is entitled 'ten questions about sex answered'.. question 8: does god approve of homosexuality?.

erbie

Here we collide with the difference between god-centred morality and common-sense morality.

You are suggesting I have no common sense. Shame.

I am happy to let you have your beliefs but it's not me you need to convince.

Good luck.

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Is The WTBTS' View Of Homosexuality Softening?

by JW GoneBad in

or at least the public may be given the impression that jws and the wtbts are fair minded and do not discriminate against the homosexual lifestyle.

check out this quote from the nov 1, 2011 watchtower (public edition).

the article on page 4 is entitled 'ten questions about sex answered'.. question 8: does god approve of homosexuality?.

erbie

The bible is quite clear about homosexuality right?

Please don't be offended by my words but I have always understood this to be the case. I guess what I'm saying is that what I think or what Jo Bloggs thinks or what the GB thinks is irrelevant. If they believe they are following the bible then naturally they will condemn it.

Just to avoid any confusion, I believe God loves us all. Whether or not he loves our actions is another thing entirely.

Personally I treat gay people as I do all others.

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How many?...

by tenyearsafter in

i couldn't find if this has been discussed in the past, but do we have any idea how many former posters/apostates from this forum have actually returned to the jw's?

i am not talking about those that were reinstated for family reasons, but rather, those that actually had a change of heart and "repented" to become active jw's again?

i can't imagine it is many, but would be curious if anyone knows individuals that have gone back because they truly believed again?

erbie

I haven't been for a long time but as time goes by I am more and more convinced that many so called 'apostates' do really believe it but rage against it because it has hurt them in some way. Catharsis I suppose.

And remember, there is a very fine line between love and hate. Many of us left because of individuals, not because we hated the teachings.

It's a very complex issue and I never take it, or people, for granted. In my experience you can never say that someone will NEVER go back because people change their mind for an infinite number of reasons.

I've seen people spitting fire at it one moment and then you hear that they have gone back and seem very happy and have continued for many years. This is why I am always careful what I say to people who have fallen away.

Nothing is cut and dried. Many people on this forum will return. Not today perhaps but certainly in the years to come.

Sorry if this isn't what you want to read but really, I've seen so many go back to the meetings. If it's what they want then who am I to stop them.

erbie

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Hello--new to the witnesses...and you

by LKM in

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just wanted to introduce myself.

i went to the kh for the first time 2 weeks ago...and will go again tomorrow.

i don't believe anything witnessy...(i was raised in the assembly of god church and now the closest thing i "do" with religion is yoga or sometimes the buddhist temple).... but the man i'm in love with is a df'd jw (we've been together for 6 years).... and he wants to get reinstated just to talk to his family again (i can assure you he does not believe it).... and he wants his family to accept me because we are about to get married... so, i'm going to meetings...its very interesting, but only because it shows me more about how he was raised.

erbie

Where has Teary gone?

I was enjoying his comments.

I have to say that a lot of what he says is right. I don't want to fall in to the trap of tearing down all the time. I'm far too self reflective for that.

Everybody should have their say right? That's why we are here.

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Governing Body... meet WORLD... world... meet Governing Body! The JW Survey website has been launched!!

by cedars in

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well, things have moved very quickly with the survey, and it now has it's very own website at www.jwsurvey.org!!.

if you are new to this forum and would like to have your say on what the governing body is teaching and practicing, then please visit this new site and register your views.. for those of you that have followed the development of the survey over the past month or so, feel free to visit and take a look around.. the website gives those who participate in the annual survey the opportunity to review the results of the survey at the same time as they register their responses.

that way they can get a feel for how the rest of the world is voting once they have submitted their own answers.. you can also check out the progress of the survey by logging on from time to time (anonymously, of course) and checking out the latest results.. there will also be a number of "mini surveys" run regularly, which i feel represent a completely unique experience for those who enjoy visiting jw-related forums.

erbie

If attempting to destroy the WT gives your life a purpose then who is to stop you.

Whether or not it will bring anyone happiness or enable them to better serve their fellow man is, I believe, questionable.

We all need to be careful that we do not become the monsters that we believe we have escaped from.

He who fights with monsters might take care lest he thereby become a monster.

And if you gaze for long into an abyss, the abyss gazes also into you.

Friedrich Nietzsche

Beyond Good and Evil, Aphorism 146

German Philosopher (1844-1900)

As Yoda would say: 'I sense much anger in you'

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printing of g increased

by factfinder in

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i don't know if anyone has noticed this yet but the jan. 2012 g is now up on jw.org.

the average printing per issue is now.

41.042,000 which is an increase per issue of 1,129,000 more compared with last year.

erbie

They're all misprints, surely.

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Christians Please Explain

by AK - Jeff in

since leaving all organized religion, all superstition, all acceptance of deity, i have a terrible time truly understanding 'religious' thought.. i really do.. how is it possible for thinking people to just accept, without proof, all they accept?

this morning i overheard a conversation between two christians in a coffee shop.

they say to me 'dad, what's wrong with just being a nice, good person?

erbie

Hell, I'm doomed! ;(