So the way I did it was...
I started to tell my wife about the disturbing things that were happening in elders meetings. How so much is not how Jesus would have done things or would want things done.
How direction from the GB is now done to protect them from litigation and leave the elders open to problems.
How assembly parts with interviews are often not true, that COs make people change what they say.
How so so many quotes in article and talks are really inaccurate or lies.
The whole change in Donations - giving money from the hall to the GB - the promise of thousands of halls and then NONE. The continued asking for money.
How we are not Teachers anymore - how everything is dumbed down, and elders are not even instructed to be good teachers.
How the Carts could not be closer to what the scripture talked about "being peddlers of the truth"
All to the point of how disturbed I was with things and how they go against what Jesus taught, and how we are doing things that we accuse other religions of doing.
THIS GOT MY WIFE THINKING AND OUT ALL ON HER OWN.