I agree completely.
I can tell you I have seen many elders act so cruel to those they were supposed to protect. They live these lives where they control nothing and have been deprived of so much.
Well, the one thing they can control is the lives of the sheep. Love and understanding and forgiveness got set aside because of the frustration and anger that lives deep inside them, and they took it out on the sheep who needed love and care. Thus I saw how elders instead of showing understanding and mercy for a young sister who - dared to have sex - and then felt so guilty she confessed, called horrible things. Called "hot to trot" and "a sexpot". And funny enough I know that they lusted after her.
Frustration and anger in the hands of uneducated, power hungry, fearful men is a recipe for disaster and much pain.
I could go on and on with what I hated when I was an elder.
Oh, and by the way, I was not immune to these feelings and actions.