I don't know how old you are but why don't you try socializing in your school, with your classmates, or make friends outside the cong? You don't really need the attention of the "cool kids" from the cong, you are way cooler than them only by posting here.
Get comfortable outside the congregation, the sooner the better.
There is no really loophole, you have to be an adult to change congs without the permission of your parents.