Here is another gem from Paragraph 17 of the same article;
17 Consider just one example of the
good that can come when a family loyally
upholds Jehovah’s decree not to associate
with disfellowshipped relatives. A
young man had been disfellowshipped
for over ten years, during which time his
father, mother, and four brothers “quit
mixing in company” with him. At times,
he tried to involve himself in their activities,
but to their credit, each member
of the family was steadfast in not
having any contact with him. After he
was reinstated, he said that he always
missed the association with his family,
especially at night when he was alone.
But, he admitted, had the family associated
with him even a little, that small
dose would have satisfied him. However,
because he did not receive even
the slightest communication from any
of his family, the burning desire to be
with them became one motivating factor
in his restoring his relationship with
Jehovah. Think of that if you are ever
tempted to violate God’s command not
to associate with your disfellowshipped
relatives.
...finally the WT puts it in print the ONLY reason people seek reinstatement. It has nothing to do with any remorse towards Jehovah or feeling guilty about their lifestyle, it is all about restoring their relationship with family-not Jehovah. Never once did this shunned individual say ANYTHING about missing the meetings, ministry ect, he does not even mention anything about his relationship with Jehovah. Hilarious! Most people I know that finally capitulate and get reinstated to restore family ties, do enough spiritually "to get by", their only motivation is to restore family ties-period!