Be surprised ! Most people claiming to be Christians are trying to decimate the Bible by misinterpreting the Bible and the issue of being born again is an excellent example .
Jesus was speaking to Nicodemus who was a Jew . He was already a God's child as all Old Testament Israel was called the children of God .
People who are sinners are dead according to Christ ! Read the Bible well ! What happens when a person believes in Christ : he leaves the death and goes to life !
To be born again is to become a God's child again ! And only Jews - Israelites could become born again that is become a child of God again.This time it is in a spiritual sense !
It is ,then, if you talked to someone born again you most likely did not talk to the born-again believer ; in view of the fact that there is a very small number of Jews that are born again.
In the first place those born again are among those Jews who are a part of the class 140000 servants.
Christ - the first born and 144000 servants also the first born. And some of them can be born again if they were Jews before.
Can you imagine now most of those claiming to be born again were not born again at all and they most likely are in the religions that are contrary to the Bible !