Man, I feel sorry for you faders. That sucks.
I agree with those that say be careful about incriminating yourself.
One of the grossest things you may have to do: Just act tired.
'I'm tired' / 'I'm exhasusted' / 'I'm
just drained' / etc... feels so crappy to just act like a total deadbeat loser when you have strong moral and intellectual grounds not to go anymore. Better that than df'd? Acting like a total weakling is what worked for me. Very frustrating... but it worked.