Here is how it works
They expect you to hang yourself so don't tell them anything and don't give them the amunition they are looking for.
The first thing YOU ask is
What are you accusing me off and who is the accuser? Who are the witnesses.
They will try and wheezel out of actually accusing you of anything and they certainly will avoid pointing out the accuser and his witnesses.
If they don't actually accuse you of anything then get up and say well then there is nothing to talk about, everything is under control. I have done nothing wrong. You had no cause to form a judicial commite, Goodbye.
If they do accuse you, and I strongly doubt they will, deny everything and make them provide the proof.
Mention that you possibly may take legal action against them personally AND the Society. ( make sure you include the Society) if they slander you by speading rumours and inuendoes even indirectly by DFing you. Just DFing you is slander if they have no proof of any wrong doing.
I have faced these Gestapo types and I have beaten them at their own game. They tried to DF me and lost big time.
YOU must be in control. If you don't want to answer a question then don't. That is what they do if you ask a question and they know the answer will show the Society in a bad light.
Don't play their game their way.
You can win if you remain calm and in control. Tell them as little as possible. Preferably nothing at all. Everything you say will be used to hang your balls from the yardarm.
Older Tom