personally i hate it when you come face to face with someone disfellowshiped and you can't do a simple acknowledgement or greeting.
they are obviously making an effort to be there to be reinstated.
as i recall back in the 1970's they did allow this but what is always the case some took advantage of this provision and in engaged in full blown conversations.
I'm not aware of that being "policy".
I think most do it to avoid being even more uncomfortable
yes I'm sure thats probaly the case.. I'm pretty brash and bold, bosterious is a word often used to desribe me, lol.. I sat in the 3rd row back right in the middle so everyone could see me..
hey I wanted to let them know I was there lol.. they felt more uncomfortable than I did...
because of "religious" differences, she now wants me to move out and "separate"...i said what biblical grounds does she have for her request?.
she couldnt respond...she said she'd rather be beaten up by me than have an "apostate" in the house.... this org definitely encourages conditional love.... i don't know what to do...by the way, we dont have children.
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tell her to move out.. if she wants to leave.....
i jus got dissfellowshiped at th last week..i feel like dying..i attended th meetings yesterday and ita ws jus horrible..came back home in tears....... people i used to cal my friends nw cant look me in the eye..so heartbroken confused and giving up on life !.
I know how you feel .. I really do .. what got me through it was my relationship with jehovah was stronger than my relationship with the organazation. they always told us you have to have a good relationship with GOD.. so do just that..
good luck..
personally i hate it when you come face to face with someone disfellowshiped and you can't do a simple acknowledgement or greeting.
they are obviously making an effort to be there to be reinstated.
as i recall back in the 1970's they did allow this but what is always the case some took advantage of this provision and in engaged in full blown conversations.
yes the total we can't even stand the sight of you is really bad...
I have a question along these lines.. was thinking of starting a thread on this, but it's fitting here.
When I was DF'd in 1987, they told me I could sit anywhere in the hall..that the spirit protected everyone from me during the meeting.. LOL so I sat up close with everyone.. at which, durning the meeting some would exchange a glance and a smile with me, then a look of horror and panic at the thought of me ...
Then the elders told me that I need to sit at the back of the hall because I made the congregation feel uncomfortable.. I remember most Df's people did sit at the back of the usually out of shame .. I didn't want to be like that..this was the final straw and why I walked away..
My Question is .. Is it now policy for DF'd people to sit at the back of the hall? does anyone know either way? I thought I saw on a post that it was, or do most just do that out of shame..
thanks
my youngest who i haven't seen for 6 months came to collect the rest of her stuff from the flat today.. she was cold and indifferent towards me until the dog went for her because she no longer knows her and then she blamed me for everything that has happened.. having trouble keeping it together now..
this song always lifts me up..
ok, enough with conspiracies (for now).
why don't us leaders deal with the severe shortage of actors in this country?.
every year, the us fails to produce enough competent actors to meet its needs and so, must rely on foreign imports.. like hugh laurie.
lol ... yes they need a ugly guy now and again... to fill a role... it's was a comedian who made that remark and it's a dig at politians being big phonies..
I was being a comedian too...
...and that applies to religion as well as politics.. if someone simply believes such and such is true, it doesn't really matter whether you "prove" it or not.
people will believe what they want to believe..
I've Come To Realize That "OP'S" Don't Mean Much If A Person Refuses To DISCUSSE Them
once again a thread is highjacked .. by the same personal experience spamer..
anyone notice my "how belief systems work" it pretty much answers the OP..
ok, enough with conspiracies (for now).
why don't us leaders deal with the severe shortage of actors in this country?.
every year, the us fails to produce enough competent actors to meet its needs and so, must rely on foreign imports.. like hugh laurie.
Because they're too busy being bad actors themselves.
actually they are really good actors ..... they are just not Good Looking enough to make it in Hollywood..
I'm repeating something I heard once.. "Politicians are actors who can't make it in Hollywood because they are not Good Looking".. I think it's true..
no not a snake a sidewinding roller blind for my bathroom.. i don't mind decorating and i like gardening but this roller blind nearly finished me off.. had to move the brackets three times!.
thought i was going to have to get a man in .
how long it stays up is anyone's guess.. are you any good at diy?.
three times.... it's usually the charm..lol
Thought I was going to have to get a man in
But no it is up. How long it stays up is anyone's guess.
depends on the ED meds he's on.. if more than 4 hours call the doctor .. lol
watchtower studies like today's really make me feel anger for this cult.
i mean almost all of them do but this one is one of those articles that takes things too far.. i mean they are condemning the people who are trying to help/save the earth because it's "satan's" world and instead are saying that religious salesmen with magazines are doing way more than the others!like are you f**king kidding me?another reason why i hated this study article is for what some of the young ones did in response to the study.
as one was unwrapping a piece of candy, he decided to throw the wrapper on the ground.
yep ... join our cause of giving up on trying to fix anything... you'll make Jehovah mad if we succede .. and he won't be able to destroy the world
So for Gods sake DON"T EVEN TRY! to make any imporovements
