Amelia: At least you gave it a gallant effort to help your friend. Even though she has been out for awhile she still can't bring herself to research about the BORG. Something drastic has to happen to your friend to help her see the need to investigate, sad to say.
But I agree with 20yearfader that at this point it's a waste of your time, she will only drag you down and make you frustrated. Live your life and be happy.