((68Storm))
I'd have to agree w/the other posts here - although I'm sure its one of the most painful things you'll have to do - 25 years is a long time.
In the end, you may find that it will relieve you of many "burdens" you carried respecting this woman and her religion. Your children may also find peace in this. Hopefully, it will work out as much in this life does - for the best.