WELL CYP YOU HAVE A PLETHORA is that how you spell that? OF INFORMATION AND TACTICS.
I PREFER THE MODERATE QUIET SLY APPROACH TO THIS SITUATION. I WOULD SPEAK TO YOUR DAD, THE LAWYER BUT NOT PUT ANYTHING INTO ACTION AT THIS POINT.
ENGAGE YOUR SELF AND HER AND ESPECIALLY THE CHILDREN IN AS MANY ACTIVITIES IN THE SCHOOLS AND ELSEWHERE AS IS POSSIBLE.
SINCE THE JW'S DEMAND SO MUCH OF A PERSONS TIME, THIS MAY CAUSE SOME CONFLICT IN HER MIND AS TO TAKING AWAY YOUR FAMILIES TIME TOGETHER. ALSO TRY TO HAVE AS MANY GET TOGETHERS WITH YOUR FAMILY AND HERS. FOR THE SAME PURPOSE.
WEEK END TRIPS AND VACATIONS ALONG WITH TREATING HER WITH RESPECT AND LOVE. WHICH IS SOMETHING THE JW'S WILL STOP DOING IF THEY SEE HER MISSING MEETINGS AND INACTIVE IN DOOR TO DOOR WORK.
POINT OUT HOW YOU AND THE KIDS NEED MORE TIME FOR FAMILY, NOT HOW THE JW'S ARE TO BLAME.
TO CHALLENGE THEM MAY BE VIEWED AS CHALLENGING HER. LET THE DOUBTS FORM IN HER MIND.
TAKE ALL THE SUGGESTIONS HERE ON THIS THREAD AND PICK WHAT YOU WANT.
START SLOWLY AND COME BACK HERE TIME TO TIME AND TELL US HOW IT IS GOING AND WHAT IS WORKING.
I PROMISE YOU, YOU WILL GET LOTS OF SUGGESTIONS AND HELP TO READJUST IF NEEDED.
BEST WISHES TO YOU IN YOUR STRUGGLE.
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