Hey, Rod, welcome to JW.net. Tell us alittle about yourself.
JakeM2012
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New
by rod.henderson inhi,.
completely brand new to this site and to witnesses.
a friend introduced me to the jw and i'm just learning all i can..
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Former Elders? What did you not like about serving as an elder?
by JakeM2012 ina few of my pet peeves were:.
the po/cobe knowing that he needed to have an elders meeting after the meeting but not telling any other elders.
humm, but his wife knew.
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JakeM2012
A few of my pet peeves were:
The PO/Cobe knowing that he needed to have an elders meeting after the meeting but not telling any other elders. Humm, but his wife knew. His family would show up at the hall with two cars so his wife and children could go home, but the other elders and their families were stuck waiting and kids having homework. It never ended up a "short" meeting.
Another beef I had, was an elder having the bookstudy in his house, (god I'm old), but would not turn the air conditioning on until the meeting started and it was set very high. (He was cheap or could not afford to run the air conditioner) If you were the reader or the conductor, he insisted that you wore your suit jacket, although it was HOT in the house. Oh, I just loved the Texas summers.
We got directions that the elders meetings were supposed to be limited to two hours (?, bad memory) and the PO/Cobe just kept going as if the council did not apply to our elders meetings.
What were yours?
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Wanabee Elders & Ministerial Servants
by minimus inthere were a lot of wannabee elders and ministerial servants in the congregations.
if you were a male and baptized, it was expected that you "reach out".
everyone wanted to have a position.. wives and mothers of men wanted representation too.
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JakeM2012
I cannot comment on much recently, as in the last 5 years. But the last memory of men eager to be either servants or elders has been around 2004-5. In the congregations in my home town, there are many older men who have served in years past as elders but they are not serving now.
The majority of these brothers are the victims of elder bodys' righteous indignation (politics). After experiencing the wrath of an ungrateful body of elders who are disciplining fellow elders for minor infractions it can either lead to removal or if they move, not receiving a letter of recommendation at the new hall. Once the spell is broken these brothers find out how simple their lives can be and how much more time they have.
Imagine driving to and from the meetings with your wife and family and not alone. After the meeting, hanging around for a few minutes driving home with your family, possibly catching a snack and a few beers, margarita's, or martini's at Chili's, Applebee's, or P.F. Chang's and still getting home before you would before.
As elder body's grow older and the uber elder/nerds take over, it will be even more difficult to get someone, especially younger men interested in joining the elders men's "club". Too much work that is mostly unappreciated, others elders can be hyper-critical, and some are just window washing idiots that have no clue. Perhaps WT should change proceedure and start having the elders meetings at a men's club and pass out Cuban cigars. LOL.
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What would it take....
by Separation of Powers ini was speaking to my sister the other day.
she has faded much quicker than i. she moved on with her life along with her husband and family.
we still talk every day and share our little ditties about life.
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JakeM2012
Separation of Powers, good question, and yes, everyone is different.
Do you think that you have a good enough relationship with family that you could lead the rest of the family away by example? If you just stopped, would they think, hey what made brother quit, something must be wrong with the org. or he is upset with something?
It is possible that some in the family are continuing for the reasons you stated. I don't know if you are in the same hall or not, but if one sibling might not want to stand out from another with mom or dad. But I don't know your situation.
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Yesterday I met a poster from JWN
by crmsicl inabout 4 months ago i pm'd poster "emma" because i noticed she was from the same state i grew up in.
i told her about myself and where i grew up, i was not a jw growing up but she was.
as we communicated we eventually realized that we were from the same neck of the woods and then even from the same high school and graduating class.
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JakeM2012
"Two mothers actually named their children Farkel?"
Isn't your sister named Sparkel Farkel?
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Drunkess
by d ini went with some coworkers to a bar and got very wasted.
has anybody else experienced blacked out drunkess..
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JakeM2012
.15 -Balance and movement are impaired. At this BAC level the equivalent of half a pint of whiskey is circulating in the blood stream. .15-.25 -Most people experience blackouts .30 -Loss of consciousness .40 -Complete unconsciousness and potentially fatal .45+ -Breathing stop. A fatal dose for most. -
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Letter From My Mother: Moire insane Watchtower Rhetoric
by confusedandalone inagain, i apologize to any who think i may be going overboard posting these letters, but i am hoping that i can help prepare others for the type of bombardment that they may face when dealing with mentally diseased witness parents who have no idea just how much control this cult has over them:.
august 19, 2013. dear <my name removed> & <my wifes name removed>, .
i had the privilege of attending the convention this weekend for a second time and i must say that i enjoyed it more than the first.
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JakeM2012
Confused and alone, I feel for you, manly hugs and I'll buy you a beer.
After reading your post for the last month or so I am happy that I have no contact with my still active family in the "truth", and I'm not disassociated or disfellowshipped. Not bragging. It took me some time to adjust, but now I'm very content. I should have left when I was 18 years old and saved myself the trouble and mess.
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AWAKE quote that is a "Point the finger" and ......
by Phizzy inremember , there's three pointing back at the wt !
the following quote is taken from the awake 22nd april 1970 issue, pg 8 : -.
"one of the reasons is that people are disturbed by what is happening in their churches.
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JakeM2012
Yes, mark worthy! Good catch.
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"Whether These Appear Sound From a Strategic or Human Standpoint or Not." - What do YOU think?
by jw07 inhttp://www.jw.org/en/publications/magazines/w20131115/seven-shepherds-eight-dukes/.
paragraph 17.
"at that time, the life-saving direction that we receive from jehovahs organization may not appear practical from a human standpoint.
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JakeM2012
Personally, I think it just more mumbo jumbo to keep the R&F looking at/to them for guidance. They love the attention.
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JakeM2012
Metaspy, life it tough sometimes, we all go through rough patches. I am not familiar with your struggle, but I am no stranger to "tough and discouraging" situations. Things will get better,,, there has been a lot of good advice here and we do care.