I grew up celebrating xmas.-even had parts in xmas programs. I remember my first part when I was 6 years old. A group of kids spelled out greetings from the church platform. I went first and mom told me to be loud so every one could hear. I started a bit early with my lines:" Greetings. I'll say Merry Xmas to you and wish you much of cheer, for happy birthday to Jesus, he's our savior dear." (61 years ago) After the program, Santa was in the church passing out stockings of candy,etc...I got overlooked. ( I must have been bad, lol!) Anyway, Santa being in the church shows up the falseness of the whole affair. But if one left JWs because of the falsehoods they found in the religion, how can they celebrate a false birthday? We don't know Jesus's birthday. Do you celebrate it just to defy the JW's? Some people who have left the JWs not only go about defying them, but also God Almighty and the Bible. Celebrating xmas does that. Maybe you want to be family inclusive....ok...but don't make that which is pagan into a holy affair...that doesn't work if you are honest.