Hey. Don't worry. Just breathe. All of us know that sick feeling that you get when you realize the truth of this org. Just try to be honest and talk with the ex elders and ex ms around here. All the best ok
MsGrowingGirl20
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Feeling very sick!
by msconcerned inwell as you all may or not know i am an m.s and trying to figure all these feeling out.
but i have a dilemma, i will be going on a shepherding call with an elder to "help" a family who is discouraged with the people in the hall.
i have to admit i feel the same way they do so how can i "encourage" them when i feel the same?
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hey expioneers and exelders what goes on during......
by 5go inthe co visit during those meetings you guys go to.
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MsGrowingGirl20
Its just the same stuff that makes publishers feel like shit
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What JW catch phrase DRIVES YOU NUTS!!!!
by megaflower in"we should be mindful".
grrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr.
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He/ She left Jehovah He/She drifted away from Jehovah The Truth
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Zealous Witnesses who never had children and regret it now.
by MsGrowingGirl20 ini had two close friends in the org.
one is in her early thirties and got married last year and the other one is single and in her late twenties.
after reading coc, i couldn't help but feel sad at how ray and his wife felt regret at putting the religion first and not having any children.
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@ Magwitch.....What a twisted man! Thank goodness you didn't listen.
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Zealous Witnesses who never had children and regret it now.
by MsGrowingGirl20 ini had two close friends in the org.
one is in her early thirties and got married last year and the other one is single and in her late twenties.
after reading coc, i couldn't help but feel sad at how ray and his wife felt regret at putting the religion first and not having any children.
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MsGrowingGirl20
That is so sad! It's enough to make you just want to burn down a freakin' kh!!!! What the hell is wrong with those men???! jeez I would've been so bitter and even hearing about other people is so heartbreaking. gosh
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Zealous Witnesses who never had children and regret it now.
by MsGrowingGirl20 ini had two close friends in the org.
one is in her early thirties and got married last year and the other one is single and in her late twenties.
after reading coc, i couldn't help but feel sad at how ray and his wife felt regret at putting the religion first and not having any children.
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Thank you all.
Actually Robert, they are both 'spiritually strong pioneers' and are both regular pioneers.
But I get your point about subtle ways and language. I just wonder if it will work or get through to them and if it does, will it be fast enough. But if its the best I have then...
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Zealous Witnesses who never had children and regret it now.
by MsGrowingGirl20 ini had two close friends in the org.
one is in her early thirties and got married last year and the other one is single and in her late twenties.
after reading coc, i couldn't help but feel sad at how ray and his wife felt regret at putting the religion first and not having any children.
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I had two close friends in the org. One is in her early thirties and got married last year and the other one is single and in her late twenties. After reading COC, I couldn't help but feel sad at how Ray and his wife felt regret at putting the religion first and not having any children. I'm also scared because when I was going to the meetings and my friends and I were close, we spoke about children and agreed that we don't want to have children in this system.The wise thing would be to wait until the new system and then have kids,right?
Since I stopped going meeting last November, we have spoken about twice.
I would hate for these wonderful women to go on and miss their chance to have children and then regret it. Its so sad. That's why I wish that I could just 'wake' them up but I know that it's not as easy as that. I try to hold on to the thought and hope that one day they leave and enjoy life and have kids if that is what they really want.
I'm thinking....Anything that I want to send them or tell them will just be interpreted as apostate. They will mentally go into 'block' mode and I would be df. Not that i really care but I want to still be able to talk to them.
Is this common? Have you or anyone you knew experienced this?
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Did Anyone Apply To Go To Bethel, And Not Be Accepted?
by LoisLane looking for Superman inthe brother i loved, married someone else.
at the ripe old age of 20, i thought my life was over.
if i was catholic, i probably would have joined a nunnery.
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I went to the meeting at a DC about 2 years ago.It was so strange. The Elder was so cold. At the time I really thought that it was uncomfortable. When he was reading out the requirements, he stressed at the end,"And, brothers, if you are in the habit of self abuse or masturbationg, DO NOT APPLY! DO NOT APPLY! Fix that and then apply."
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Move on.
by MsGrowingGirl20 inafter living a life where individualism and almost everything else is wrong, you kinda go crazy with excitement when you finally can be yourself.
i guess that's why i started to run crazy with ideas and had such a burning desire to change myself and to find myself and to figure out who i was and now who i should be.
i wanted to be in stark contrast to the org.
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MsGrowingGirl20
Thanks Tater T. That's nice!
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That sweet, tingling feeling...
by MsGrowingGirl20 inthat sweet, tingling feeling you get, no matter how hard life is at the time, when you remember that you're free.
that feeling reminds you that it's okay to not be sure about everything and it's okay to love persons even if they don't read the same literature or hold the same views as you.. it's okay to make mistakes because the people who love you will not pull back their love and association because of it.. the persons who are around you genuinely love you and are not just trying to portray 'love' because it looks good to 'potential' sheep.. it's even okay to try new things and it isn't a bad thing when you're actually enjoying life.. i don't have to try to be someone that i'm not and my worth is not, not.... my worth is not measured by a number on a piece of paper.. i can go through life at my own pace and i can be different.. that feeling reminds me that i can be myself!.
i know that you get that feeling also.
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Love this feeling :-)