“ I sort of get why people choose to fade but are you ever free ? You can't celebrate birthdays or Christmas if you want to . Can you have worldly friends? It seems like the Watchtower still kinda runs your life
I may be wrong about what you can actually get away with, but l am curious as to how much of a hold the Org does still have on you .
Do people who have made a clean break feel a sense of relief that they are free to live their lives as they wish ?
Does that outweigh the fact that some family and friends no longer talk to them ?”
Jan from Tam you don’t understand the fading or JWlite option. Yes you can openly celebrate birthdays and other things once you are known as an inactive JW with no shunning needed.
You have the best of both worlds without any disadvantages. You have more advantages than a pimi because you will be so love bombed and given all the food at gatherings
you will be offered lifts and even accommodation and things like that.
i maintain that JWs really are great people this is why it’s worth making sure you don’t get shunned by them.