Hi newbies,
I am an inactive JW but not DA'd or DF'd. My mum is 85 and she has been an active witness since 1942 or something like that. I would agree it makes no sense for Mum to leave the truth, she has stuck with all these years and her mind is simply made up.
I drifted away more than 10 years ago, I just couldn't be bothered going anymore. I would miss meetings for months, get the energy and attend again, and I saw "Same old crap, different day". I got awfully tired of the word "SOON". I cannot stand now to read this word, it appears hundreds of thousands of times in the magazines, and in every issue of the WT. My point is IF THEY DON'T KNOW WHEN THE END IS COMING, THEN DON'T SAY ITS SOON!!!! Thats a lie and simply downright manipulative.
So I decided to be true to myself; anyway the bible says everyone must stand on his own two feet before Jehovah, and if I knowingly go along to meetings out of fear of man while my conscience is telling me Somethings wrong here, then do you think Jehovah will excuse me?
In the words of the Bard :
"Then I'll stand on the ocean until I start sinkin'
But I'll know my song well before I start singin"
Best wishes to you both in your search for The Truth.
The Pope