Steve and I have been talking about whether we will go to the memorial. Steve said months ago that he wanted to go but when you called last night he wasn't sure. I think we will. I personally feel it would be a distraction either way. No need to give anyone more reason to talk about us. I think you are right about you and Dad not going though, especially since Grandma is so understanding about it. I get this queasy feeling just thinking about going back there.
Grandpa is very missed, but we have been missing him for some time now. The last time we went to visit, he didn't know us. He has never remembered my three year old daughter and has been confused when he sees her. We really enjoyed the stories he told and he was a very talented landscaper. Many yards around here will never be quite as pretty.
Princess
PS Thank you Slayer