If you are inside the JW bubble long enough, perhaps even being brought up this way by your parents, it can take a long time to break the brainwashing and really see in your heart how sick and wrong the Watchtower Society really is. Sometimes I feel that I will never emotionally grasp it, although logically I know that it is the sad truth.
We should lovingly support anyone who is in the process of coming out. Otherwise, we are being just like the Witnesses who truly do make you decide whether you are in or out.